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missmarple

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  1. Ah, ok, it's still very early days..lots of things to learn about each other
  2. It's true that if someone wants to cheat, they will. But, usually, we aren't warned about it, so, of course, there's nothing we can do when, out of the blue, we find out someone has cheated. In this case, though, I think what you got was a warning that something is off here. That's how I would view this incident if it had happened to me...and if this was someone I'd been with for a long time (and had given me no reason to distrust him), I wouldn't break up with him just because of this one incident. But if it was someone I'd known for less than 2 months and had just slept with for the first time, yes, I think I'd leave...key word is 'think' of course. You haven't known him for ages but you know him better than all of us here.
  3. Although I'm all for honesty, this is a case that I would have handled in a different way. Because, if what he told you (that he wanted to be nice, etc) was a lie, now he knows you have your suspicions and he can just hide his profile or make a new one, or make one on a different site or something like that. Trust is vital in any relationship, of course, but when you've only known someone for a few weeks, how much can you trust him? As for the '2 mistakes is a pattern' thing, generally, I agree with the reasoning behind it, but, when it comes to online dating, it's just too easy for someone to hide what he does. If I were you, I wouldn't give him a second chance. His excuse is pathetic, really. I know it's easier said than done but I would think about how I would feel if, 2 or 3 months down the line, I found out he kept dating others. In any case, it's a difficult situation and I suggest you take some time away from him and think about it carefully.
  4. Good luck on your date tomorrow..I hope it's better than mine was tonight!
  5. Well, at least, he's eager to do something about it. I really hope it works.
  6. I may sound harsh but I would walk. I've been in that situation (relationship with guy with ED due to insecurities, etc) and it almost killed my self-confidence. You don't want to go through that. He needs to fix the issue himself before he considers a relationship, in my opinion.
  7. He's very good-looking but so are you..and, in any case, it doesn't have to do with looks. The most handsome guy I ever dated, I had left after a couple of months because I just wasn't feeling it (he was heartbroken).
  8. I know what you mean as I used to be like that, too. What I do now is make sure I don't sleep with them because it usually makes things worse for them. Sorry for the question (you know i have a lot of my mind, too) but can you remind me how long have you known/been with Mark?
  9. And to think Cancers are the ones who are supposed to be clingy..lol
  10. I think dating exclusively is fine after a month and I agree with you that it might be a bit too early for the gf/bf title.
  11. I just find it amazing how you've been dating for 3 months and nothing is clear yet. I've never been able to do that!
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