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You did things in the wrong order. Marriage first, then house. You can get out of it though . . . houses are sold all the time. You can sell yours.

Or bigger.

Anxiously waiting by my inbox.

Can you please post a pic? Because I have never in my whole life seen a perfect man and I would like to see one before I die.

Gen X here. But we can still be trolled I suppose.

What movie?

This man is in his 50s though? Is he stupid? Going around sleeping with everything that moves, knocking up women, come on now (of course I question the judgment of the women too).

That's how I got my third kid.

Let's get back to looking down on people whose bodies aren't what we think they should be.

I don't know if this trend towards sexting is normal, but it's certainly common. 😐 I remember talking to a guy several years ago (real life friend, sort of. We are no longer in contact) who was getting a divorce. One of the first things he did was take multiple pictures of his package because he'd need them for when he did online dating. He wanted to have them ready to send. He really thought this was part of his prep work, sort of like running copies of the agenda for a business meeting you're attending--it's just what you do. I said nothing. Let him find out on his own. (He did get remarried last I heard. So maybe said package was/is more impressive than I was imagining)

By "intimacy" I assume you mean "sex." Those terms are not interchangeable but the vast majority of people use them that way.

Your rules, while not uncommon in situations like this, are unenforceable. How do you legislate someone else's feelings? You can't. You also have no control over someone else's condom use. I'm not saying don't keep the lines of communication open. But recognize the risks. Sort of reminds me of that '70s song "Fooled Around and Fell In Love."

The only relationship reading I ever did that actually resonated with me was Why Men Love B!tc#3s.

I don't think I asked this yet but . . . Are these charges or convictions? Although at this point it may not really matter in relationship terms as this guy is clearly not a good choice for a partner.

What's the felony for?