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  1. Hi To be frank, with all due respect, usually in this situation, either one of the partner has to convert their religion. My parents are buddhist, my brother are christian. Despite different religion, we are able to live together harmoniously and we respect each other religion. It is all about the mindset. Are your family and community able to accept this?
  2. Hi Something I thought about after I watched the ending of a drama series. Do you agree that we should be sincere and true towards our feelings? i.e. We should tell someone we love them when we are in love. We should tell someone we don't love them when the feelings are lost. In the drama series, a lady still had feelings for her ex-husband who recently remarried. Her ex husband suddenly realised that he still love her ex wife. So he divorced his current wife and remarried his ex wife. My question is: Should a married man who already lost feelings in the marriage to face up to his feelings to seek the love of his life? Should a girl face up to her feelings and confess her feeling to a married man? What would society percieve such couples? Thank you.
  3. Hi It is a good question. May be it is fate. I don't know.
  4. Hi Depression is basically due to chemical imbalance in the brain. Something to do with the hormones. It happens to my sister, and some of my relatives. So you are not alone. Constant medication is a must, if you are that serious, because when she is out on the the medicine she slump into depression again. It took her 3 months to recover from it. However, depression is also cause some people to overeating or sleepless night, depends on your conditions. It is at best that you see a doctor as soon as possible. Or you could read some books on depression. Remember to maintain a healthy lifestyle and the optimism attitude. Depression is a common sickness, you shouldn't be afraid to tell anyone.
  5. I apply for the visa first or sent out the job application first? Thanks for all your replies. I appreciated it very much.
  6. Hi I really think you should dump her. There is no point having a relationship that he will always feel insecure. She flirts with other guys when she has relationship with you, it is a bad sign and show no respect. In long term, the insecurity with build up, it is like a time bomb. It will burst one day. I actually had a work colleuge, A, who verbally said he likes me. However, he is overly "friendly" with one of my work colleagues,K, who already has a boy friend. On valentine during lunch time, A actually asked me to go out for dinner with him at "S place", when A and K share the lunch meal together. K said that she was also going to an expensive dinner with her boy friend at the "S place". It was an obvious disrespect to me and her boy friend. I did not accept the invitation. Sometimes I felt that K has an implied competition with me to get A attention, which I don't care. She would tell me that A is going out to watch movie with so and so. And A would tell me and K who and who likes him and brought him flowers on valentine day. And how many girls call him on that day. He even show me the picture of the girl who like him. I really felt disgust with the situation.
  7. Hi Great that you are starting a new journal. It would let you understand yourself more. Just want to update you all about the real life story about the DJ ex boy friend called up the radio station after 7 years ask for another chance I mentioned in my previous post. It turn out the the ex boy friend actually already has a girl friend and they are planning to get married. His girl friend still does not have a clue about what he was doing behind her back. As she help her boy friend to answer the handphone while he is in the shower. She thought that the DJ who called up was the wedding planner. Poor girl. I am so glad that the DJ dumped that jerk!
  8. Hi Thank you for all the advise. I am definitely taking one foreign language course. I will definitely check out the working holiday program. Is there any working holiday job related to finance? What will your prospective employer perceive you knowing that you spend two years having working holiday that are not related to your field?
  9. Hi Just want to know what kind of job will enable me to work and live abroad, apart from being a doctor or engineer or lawyer or tour guide? Is there such opportunity in the finance field? What its takes to get inside an international career? I am in my mid twenties, I would want to explore life first. I did backpacking once right after university. I would like to travel again. What is your advice for a person who is currently single at mid twenties, and still at the beginning stage of her career? Thank you.
  10. Hi Frankly, I feel that you already given up on the relationship. Well, seems that you already have an answer in your mind. Do whatever you think is right for you.
  11. Hi There is no doubt that we could not change the climate. But the old buildings and big houses will change and replace through development and time. My old school is not same as it was 10 years ago. New building has come along and my old classroom in a 2 storey building was abolished and replace with a new 4 storey building with new equipment like microphone, overhead projector and etc. Some of my school teacher retired and some passed away. The point is things will change. Nothing will be the same even though you live in the same town. Why you couldn't hope in plane right away when you are in Australia as compare to in other Europe country? There is weekly, if not daily, direct flight to Europe. Every worker is entitle to emergency or compasionate leave if they have family emergency. Unless you encounter monetary issues, else I do not see there is anything stopping you from going home.
  12. Hi Yes, you will felt cultural shock. But I believe there would have expatriate community in Australia. There would be people from Europe staying there speaking the same language. You could also talk to your europe friend in your native language through msn webcam. It is no doubt it is a big step for you. You could plan to visit your family on quaterly or yearly basis. Or more frequent basis, if money is not a problem to you. I understand finding work is not easy for you, because I had the similar experience. However, it takes time. It might be easier if you know someone. Though through marriage, give you the right to stay in Australia. However, it is not advisable based on the lenght of time you know each other. Both of you need to adjust and adapt to each other different up bringing. This is the most interesting part of all. Learning minor things that sounds perfectly ridiculous to you but it is perfectly normal to him and vice versa. Only marry when both of you are sure about each other and have the commitment to build a life together.
  13. Hi First and foremost is, both of you always has a choice. Whatever the situation, you could face it positively or negatively. The choice is yours. DN is the real life example of surviving through LDR and move in together. Europe and other Europe country is same as Europe and Australia. There is still a distance gap exist. It is all in your mind that make it more difficult. I had been in a LDR before, but unfortunately our relationship did not work out. My question is, why you could cope with the 4 years university life and complete your studies in Australia, and now you are home sick and unable to stay any longer? Is it in your mind that you will forever in Australia and not able to go back to Europe? I don't know about the immigration and job employment rule in Australia, but I do know that if you are a doctor or engineer you have higher chances of getting employ in any country. Perphaps, your boy friend know someone, who would willing to employ you and willing to apply the work permit for you. I believe your boy friend has a major role in helping you to adapt to the new environment. And you have the responsibility to adapt to the new life. You need to build a network of friend to help and support you. Besides your boy friend, I am sure that you have some australian university friends. Don't evolve your world around your boy friend, because everyone need some space. Don't depend on others, including your boy friend to make you happy because it is not their responsibility. Now we have high technology communication tools, we have webcam, email and Skype. It makes it easy to contact person from the other side of the world without high cost. You could reduce your home sickness through this communication tools. The obstacles are all in your mind, unless you are financially restrain.
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