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  1. I dated this girl for close to 3 years when she broke up with me 10 months ago. It was a horrible breakup on my part. I was heartbroken to find out the girl I would marry some day just wanted to leave. Anyway, throughout these 10 months she has gone up and down with me in her emotions. I still haven't won her back. I've done such sweet things for her, and in my attitude. Can't she see that? Sometime she gives me hope of getting back together, other times she bluntly states for me to move on. All in all, I am a fool for her love. I love this girl more than anything and even close to a year later, I can't stop thinking about her. Although I realize we are different in religion, and have a long distance between us, it doesn't bother me. I really want to try one last final attempt to win her back before I give up. I go through a lot of hurt with her, and I just can't take it no more. Is there any ideas on what i should do? Or should I leave it up to her?
  2. i don't know if you should totally give up on this girl after 2 1/2 years man. just show her you really care and love her. whats good about a long term relationship like yours is that there was an actual love bond between you two...not just some fling. if i were you id keep showing her love and kindness...girls like that kind of stuff. trust me she noticed the flowers you brought for her. i've heard the line, 'i need time and space' but it doesn't always mean its 'over'....after 2 months im starting to see a big change in my ex-girlfriend...and you think its bad for you being 2 hours away....i live 4hours away! and im the one in professional school! so i guess what im trying to tell you is stick with it man...there are a lot of fish in the sea but the fish you spent 3 years with is something special to you...don't let it go so quickly. good luck
  3. i know what you are going through. i am in the same situation. i don't want to call her or even go out with her but I always end up doing so too. the main thing is that you just treat her really good. when she puts you down, or gives you no hope of getting back together, just smile, tell her how much you love her, and just be there for her. trust me its going to be rough but you'll get your answer eventually. its all about persistence and patience. just keep being positive no matter what, because its going to take time. like i said in an earlier post, does a person (you) really want to be with someone that doesn't love them with all their heart? it seems like you really love this girl, but she's questioning her love for you. if she really loves you then she'll come back to you in time. its her choice. but remember be loving and caring so she won't have an excuse to have made the right choice in leaving you. you've been down this road for a month...its been 3 months for me and things are starting to get a lot clearer for me. good luck.
  4. My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me over 2 months ago. Her main reasons for doing so were because during our relationship I displayed a lot of emotional abuse towards her. Even though I believe she played a part in that, that isn't the issue now. I really want her back. For 2 months now, I have done a complete turnaround in my attitude towards her. I treat her like a queen. Call her, compliment her, do such sweet things for her, and respect her to the fullest. While I am being the perfect guy, she puts me down, and our future together. Every once in a while on the phone she tells me she doesn't think I can ever change my ways. She believes I will always be the mean guy she believes I always was. I think she just is afraid of giving me a second chance because she doesn't want to get hurt. A few weeks ago she said, "If I gave you another chance, you'd just be nice for 2 weeks, and then start being mean again...people like you don't change." But I love this girl so much, and I know if I can, I will marry her one day. She just doesn't believe I am for real, that I love her and will never hurt her, even though I have been smiling during the hurt she has been putting me through! I guess what I want to know is how can I show her I have changed? I have been so nice but it seems to backfire. Is it a matter of time? It's really hard to convice her. She cannot forget about my stupid mistakes. What can I do?
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