We've been married 11 years - most of them very happily. In the last few years we've had a run of bad luck, starting with my wife losing a baby. After this we had problems but she became pregnant again and we had our third girl. R is now 3 years old and very demanding/naughty taking lots of our time. As well as this we've had a house sale fall through, my wife had a serious illness, my mum had a cancer scare and most recently major changes with my work life have caused me massive stress and worry. My wife now says that she is bored, wants more in her life and that doesn't include me being married to her. She says she still loves me and doesn't want to hurt me. I am still madly love her and can't contemplate life without her. She is now chatting to men online and says she couldn't say that she wouldn't "wander" in the future. I will do anything to get her back to how she used to be and be the happily married couple we once were. WHAT CAN I DO??