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  1. Ugh I got what I deserved. Dammmit!! You're gone and I'm miserable now. I deserve it all.
  2. I have lost all dignity trying to get you back. You knew this was the HARDEST time for me, and the most important time for me to do the best at everything! But you left! You promised me the world, but you took it all away and waved it in my face. You made me move back into my parents place to deal with their gambling addiction. All the while you have been telling me that I did everything wrong during the relationship to make me feel even WORSE. On top of that you tell me that you would like to hang out sometime, but then completely give me the cold shoulder and pretend like you never said it. Then you tell me that you have contacted the ex that you cheated on me with. And that you are going to a movie with a girl tonight, after only 7 bloody days! But yet its my fault for not trying hard enough, when you KNEW I am in school working towards my future. I keep telling myself I could have tried harder. And I would have tried harder for you. But you don't want that. You want me wrapped around your finger, so that you will know you have me as an option while you date other girls. Sadly I still put up with it. I am failing school now and I cry all day. I feel like only you can make this better but you are gone.
  3. Well we both agreed that we should not rush things, and my head is telling me to give it sometime because in the state of mind im in I think getting involved with this guy might cause more damage then create any good. I don't want to stop being his friend though. Should i just stop hanging out with him for awhile?
  4. I just got out of a 1 year relationship a week ago. I broke up with him because he cheated on me and too much damage had been done. Now only 2 days after I broke up with him i swear i found the man of my dreams. We've hung out everyday for the past 5 days, hes met all my friends and they all love him and he even told all my friends that hes afraid cuz he's falling for me so fast. he just got out of a serious relationship as well and we're both very afraid of the way we feel towards each other. I'm finding myself being very intimidated as he's a professional athlete, very handsome, nice, loyal and everything else u can imagine. I dont want to feel this way because I want to give him a fair chance, but I still feel traumatized from my last relationship and am so afraid of getting my heart broken again. Just looking for tips on how to feel less insecure. I already find myself wondering if this new guy is just here to screw me over and I'm going to scare him away if i keep acting this way. Advice would be greatly appreciated
  5. On April 1st I'm moving 18 hours away from home to make money for university. This also means i will be 18 hours away from my boyfriend, but I'll only be gone for 3 months. I'm extremely excited about moving, meeting new people, living on my own, ect. The only delehma is that I have had very serious trust issues with my boyfriend in the past as he had cheated on me. Its been 4 months since I found out he cheated on me and I am moving past it and have gained most of my trust back, but the thought of leaving really worries me because I wont be around to hold his hand. This trip is a once in a lifetime experience and I'm so worried about leaving my boyfriend behind that it's giving me doubtful feelings on whether i should go. I feel trapt and I don't know what to do...
  6. I'm having a very hard time dealing with the suicide of my friend. he took his life on monday and everyday i seem to feel worse. I wasn't very close with him but we had partied together afew times and he had asked me out for dinner afew times but i didn't because i was dating someone else at the time. I just dont understand why someone with so many friends, who was so good looking, and so charming could do something like this. All his friends were so jealous of him ebcause he was such a ladies man and he always appeared to be so happy and confident. His death was a huge chock to everyone. even his closest friend had no idea and they were inseperable. He was only 24... how can something like this happen... I don't know how to handle this loss. it hurts and its so sad.
  7. I'm so sorry to hear about this. That guy is a real jerk. I also just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me, he had been hiding it from me for 5 months and i just found out 5 days ago. It hurts SOO badly, and moving on is definitly the hardest part. Anyone who cheats defiintly ISN'T your perfect match, and if your friends and family are telling you this after he cheated on you they are very foolish. You are better then this guy, WAY better. You need to let him know that and do w/e you can do avoid him and move on. By telling him how much he hurt you and how much your still not over him, its only going to give him the upper hand and let him think that he can get away with this again.
  8. I know there are a lot of men who will never cheat, but I know even more men who would... unfortunately.
  9. thanx you guys. No, my friends are being really understanding and are my main cause for being so strong. They have a close eye on me to make sure I don't talk to him, but I broke my one day of NC this morning and talked to him on msn. But I learnt from my mistake as I found that it just made all the anger come back. He's having a party tonight and he wants me and all my friends to go, but my friends refuse and are going to stick with me tonight, so we'll see just how well his party turns out.... lol. I even have all these guys already calling me, but to be honest it makes me SOOO sick to my stomach because I just feel like all guys are dogs
  10. I broke up with my boyfriend 4 days ago because i found out he cheated on me. I dont really want to explain what happened because it really makes me upset. Well iv only been able to manage going one day NC and and hard because we have ALL the same friends and we were both at the same bar yesterday with our friends. But anyways, i did REALLY good and didnt talk to him once all night even though i was sitting right next to him. Now I thought that not talking to him would make him upset and make him miss me because he told everyone that he cries over me every single night and misses me like crazy. But i just found out this morning that hes "already moving on" and that he's already getting over me. I'm finding this a little hard to believe after only 4 days and keep in mind we went out for 10 months. I know that he was sad right when we broke up because I saw him cry. I thought that because I broke up with him and after all the pain he put me through he'd be the one to suffer in the long run guess not....
  11. Nooooo kidding. No one can have their cake and eat it too, but so many seem to try to get away with it..
  12. Ya, thax for the replies. Pretty much explains what i should do : never talk to him again. The cheating wasnt the only thing he did that hurt me but the reason I kept taking him back was because he kept changing for the better. I was the first gf he ever had and I wish i hadn't been because he reminded me of myself when i was in gr 9 and had my first bf lol. Thats y I was curious as to weather taking him back in a long time from now would even be worth my while. Also I like what xmrth said ...If im over him then why take the chance of being hurt again?, I could just be setting myself up when there are many other fish in the sea and who wont have to remind me of the pain they had put me in previously.
  13. 3 days ago I found out that my boyfriend cheated on me 5 months ago. I really love him still and he was exactly what i was looking for, except for ... well, you know... Now don't worry im not going to take him back and just forget about it. But do you think that if you wait long enough (months, years) cheating can be forgivable? People do change....
  14. thanx you guys. Things are getting better even though its only been 2 days. I saw him yesterday because he wanted to talk. well that didnt last too long because I just ended up crying for the whole time. So left and saw an old friend. that really helped and cheered me up. I went for a lot of walks and I'm trying to move on by making plans with friends and just doing school work and continuing to play soccer. I did call in sick to work yesterday which maybe i shouldn't have, but I probably would have started crying at work and I didn't want to make a scene. I hope the anxioty attacks dont come back. I'm still getting them but not as bad. I hope things keep on getting better because I really dont want them to get worse
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