phishgirl

FIRST: you should wait for him to contact you. If so, it depends...if you are interested in rekindling a friendship/relationship with him, then be nonchalant and TEXT him this first... "Hey, been a while, what's up?" or, "Hi, what are you up to now?/ How are you?". If not, and you feel guilty not responding, say, "What's up" or "Hey, how are you?" with no question mark...this is the key. Interested or not, make sure you use ? if interested, none if not.. In general, though, you should make sure whether or not he has a gf though..

There have been scabbed knees and in the small of my back from carpet burn (my knees still have scars) ..and also from when anal activities were involved that take a couple days' recovery from..

Your length is probably pretty respectable...I doubt it will grow more unless you think you're getting taller too. BUT, I agree with the other posters that it's not size that matters so much, it's the way you use it.

Have you tried initiating your concerns to your parents? Perhaps they don't have enough information about what you're up to in your life (school, interests in sports, or movies, music, ANYTHING) to know what to discuss with you! Let them into your life a bit...same with people you're trying to become friends with. Find out about current events, and what's going on in the world, and learn about things that interest you-then bring it up with your parents or peers to begin a discussion. Perhaps they don't know how to engage with you....bring something up that DOES interest you and you'll find that others are willing to listen and engage. Check out link removed, or look up things on the internet that interest you, and talk to them about what you've researched.

if this is true based on the truth of your sources, you should break up with her. You should not subject yourself to this pain of her sneaking around on you, which is what she is doing (despite the fact that you may have suspected). Please spare yourself the pain and let go of her UNLESS she is willing to commit to you and you alone. Feel free to PM me.

James-you're NOT abnormal whatsoever--get that out of your head RIGHT NOW. You know what you like. You have likely had a crush or been attracted to others in the past. BUT-difference is- you haven't acted on your attractions, or have been too afraid to. Consider this, as I have lived by this rule: never have regrets about what you haven't done. Ask someone out. Think this when you do: WHAT WILL I HAVE ACTUALLY LOST IF I ASK THIS PERSON OUT FOR A DATE AND THE ANSWER IS NO??? What I consider later when putting myself on the line like that is this: will I ever see this person again? Likely not, as I am free. I can do as I please. i can remove myself from this situation as my life is my own. My philosophy. Utilize whether you agree. I asked my bf out when I was 6 years younger and unexperienced (never had a bf before) and never thought I'd have a chance. We've been together for over 4 years.

DaXman- ASK THIS GIRL IF SHE'LL GO WITH YOU!!! It seems quite obvious to me that she's giving ALL the hints to you that she's interested. IM her tonight if you can and see if she's online. Honestly, you have a great chance, from her comments. Talk to her tomorrow, and ask her what her plans were in how to get to the HC dance, etc. If she's kind of vague, or saying something about going with so-and-so GIRL friends, then ASK HER OUT!! She seems flirtatous with you. Remember, you only live through high school once...who knows what this may lead to? Take a chance!

Hey, what does it hurt to try it with a girl? You seem very comfortable alone, but perhaps a bit isolated as well. There IS such a thing as a relationship between two people who are isolative. Maybe she's it. You'll never know until you try. If 'she' is, best of luck. If not, keep trying. Those who are interested in you are likely those who value your independence and need for 'aloneness'.

It sounds as though you two have been through a lot emotionally, mainly due to the abuse or her pills. This fact seems to have distorted your entire relationship and impaired her judgement significantly, which likely is causing you to react and behave how you did in response to her. Obviously, her addiction is the chief issue in your relationship that is causing the discord and distrust. She is unable to be a good girlfriend because of this, and will continue to be so in the future unless she addresses this addiction. I feel that the only thing you can do at this point if you wish to salvage your relationship is to encourage and support her to go to rehab again and to see a therapist. Typically those who abuse substances have 'skeletons in the closet' that they try to avoid by self-medicating. Your girlfriend is likely to have deeper issues that you may or may not be aware of that cause this behavior and abuse. I feel all you can do at this time is to encourage her to heal herself through treatment, as she does not seem ready for a relationship right now until she improves her own well-being. To try to get back together with her at this point would be futile and painful for you. Right now, you should simply be there for her and support her in recovering from her difficult substance abuse..

I'm on Alesse too. If you've just begun this type of B.C., it takes 7 days for it to be effective and to absorb it into your system -IF- you take it every day wihout missing a dose. It is recommended that you use some other form of B.C. at this time. After this period, the Pill is 99.9% effective alone, and condoms are used with it as extra protection as well as blocking STD's. However, if you're sure your bf is STD-free, you should be fine. I do recommend condoms as a back-up, though, just to be extra careful. Beware of 'spotting' and periods a week early, however, as I have experienced this on Alesse for several months as a side effect.

Oh, by the way, how old are you?

Phillip, it sounds as though you're extremely concerned about everyone you meet being a government official who has access to your personal thoughts and conversations. Has anyone else you know been present during these conversations, may I ask? (Besides when you went to dinner with your family and your sister's boyfriend made that comment)

It sounds like you are very frustrated and stressed about your situation, and your mother and boyfirend are unsure of your needs and how to help you. What is going on in your life that makes you so down?

link removed As a healthcare provider for those with chronic illnesses, I can understand your frustraion and uncertainty. All one who is ill can ask for is "support". This ultimately means this: 1)Validate your boyfriend's illness-assure him that it's 'real' and that he's not alone in facing fibromyalgia. 2) Let him know that despite his debilitating illness, that he has a very strong role in your life. Honestly, when people are sick, they wish for a sense or normalty just like anyone else. Tell him what happened at work today and request his advice. Tell him of your frustration with getting the laundry done, the dishes cleaned, etc, and let him know that his role was very valuable in these apects. 3) Support him and visit him frequently-avoid his consistent pain and catch up on entertainment gossip, fashion magazines you'll bore him with , or anything else that distracts you both from his pain and fatigue. Point is, ultimately BE NORMAL. No one who is sick wants to be treated like a 'patient'. Let him know you love him and include him in your life until he improves.

Well, to me, it sounds like it's simply her nature to call EVERYONE honey,sweetie, etc. I don't kow the girl, but it's not unusual for 'hot' girls to refer to people this way. This is the experience I've had with 'hot' girls too, even though I'm a female, and it seems more habit than anything. OK-you've called her 20 times-got no response. You set up a date with her-she cancelled. If I were you, I'd move on. Sounds like she's more about the pursuit than the actual date-congrats, I believe you've validated her hotness. Plenty of genuine girls out there-you deserve better.