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  1. By the way... I never lied to him about the places I go or the people I hang out with. It is somewhat sad to admit that I only see my guy friends when he is around.. I have tried to make him feel as comfortable as possible.. is it wrong to ask him to do the same or am I foolish for accomodating him and his feelings at the expense of my own? I am more than willing to compromise.. but I dislike even remotely sneaky people
  2. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. We were talking engagement and moving in. We had a huge fight the other night and I walked out. I went back to his house an hour later and saw his ex girlfriends car in front with her sitting in it. She pulled away as soon as she saw me and I confronted him about it. The ex is a friend of his step-family and he claims that he was going to his cousin's birthday party and the club wouldn't let him in because of what he was wearing so she gave him a ride back home to change. I don't think they were up to anything because she was waiting outside, but I still feel a bit betrayed. He broke up with her to be with me. Please note that we were friends before we were boyfriend/girlfriend and I did not engage in a physical relationship with him before things ended with her. I gave him the space he needed to figure out what he wanted and he ended up leaving her. After three years he still has this guilt complex about it. He seems to have abandonment issues as well (his parents split up a few years ago). He keeps calling me and is begging for me to take him back but it hurts too much right now. He keeps asking me to marry him and tells me how I am the one he is supposed to be with. Anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with this. I love him with all my heart and I thought that we were supposed to be together forever. I can't handle the ex thing and she will always be around since she is close to his new step family. Do I have the right to ask that he cut ties with her? Normally I can handle my boyfriend keeping in touch with his ex, but this is getting out of control and the concern he keeps showing her only ends up hurting me. I believe the fact that nothing is going on and his mom called me to say the same thing but I can't explain to you how empty I feel. He has problems with my platonic chidhood male friends, yet somehow he expects me to be ok with this. I feel that he is a bit of a hipocrite.
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