broken soul

Seroyla wrote: My ulcer became a bleeding ulcer after just one dose of Exederin Migraine. Yea i do happen to take a LOT of medications such as that. Which is probably the cause non the less, but its a mental state that i can't get out of for as long as i can remember.... which is take a pill get better. I know i sound like a pill poppper don't I? But not on purpose. Believe me when i say ive tried to break it, but it is a LOT harder then one would think. And as for the stress managment skills and such... i do have a councelor that i go and see, but it really isnt doing much help. Not to mention that i can only see her at the most twice a month because of my dad's "precious" work schedual, so we are kind of no where right now. But i do thank you ALL for the comments you left. It really is a big help... more then you know.

Well i am going to answer your question from experience. I am 16 and I 1st had sex when i was 15, so basically last year. And i do have to say that i regret it. Maybe there were certain factors that effected my decision... like being pressured into it i guess. Also he was my 1st boyfriend and we went out for about 1 year already... i definetly DIDNT want to loose him. I mean like you said, ive heard ppl going on and on and on about too young to have sex, don't get pressured into it, your not suppose to have sex until after your married and so on and so forth. But really when it comes down to it there are a ton of factors that could influence their decision regardless of how smart they really are. I mean when reflecting back on it all i think is.. how could i have done that? how could i have been so stupid? I think it just really depends on the individual. Some young people are smart enough not to, and if they really want to and are emmotionally mature enough to handle it then it is their decision. I mean ppl say wait until you are ready. But when exactly is that? Maybe there really isnt a "right" age, it all depends on the individual. And yes adults tell us these things because they don't want you to screw up and make mistakes.... but you have to make your own mistakes. Usually the best lessons are learned through personal experience.

What everyone is saying is right. By legal definition it is RAPE. Not only that but you are in a fragile state that can easily be upseted because of your past. I know. I've had a similar case. Being sexually aggrevated can cause servere problems to your mental state. You really have to do something... anything as so he can't rape you every night. Maybe move out or break up with him since he really doesnt seem to be getting the point. Seek moral support, from someone you trust. We can give you advice but we, online, can only help you so much. Here, call the SEX ABUSE TREATMENT CENTER hotline: 524-RAPE. They help with any type of sexual assult, not just rape. And it is of the most importance to seek some kind of help. And i am speaking from experience. Good luck to you.

me and my boyfriend who have been going out for 1 year borke up 7 months ago. You think i'd be over him by now right? Well for me it isnt that easy. Since then life has gone to hell, Literally! Ive become depressed... im not sure if its because of him, maybe he just contributed to it. And i was already sick with alot of problems when i was with him but now its gotten alot worse. The doctors said it was a case of IBS for the longest time until recently ive lost a lot of weight and there is bleeding inside my stomach. Not only that but im throwing up practically everyday (not cuz of bulemia), and my head is always constantly pounding. They have no idea what it is. I miss him more than anyone could ever know. He calls me only about once a month, and wenever he does he kinda just sits there. He never really talks to me. When i tell him about me being sick, i dont really know if he cares. He just says "aww poor baby" in a sarcastic way like he doesnt believe me and then stupid things like "what are you wearing?" and such. I don't really expect him to be concerned, i mean i understand that he's not my boyfriend anymore but i just wish he was there again. And its confusing because when we went out he really cared about me. Maybe even a little more then he should, and its just not like him to be this shallow. I honestly don't have anyone else and i don't know what to do without him. So my question is what does this mean? Why is he acting this way toward me? and what should i do? anything would really help me at this point. And sorry for the message being so long, but I really appreciate your help

ive had that happen to me so many times i can't even count. I know how u feel and i do have to say it suckz, i mean really suckz. But it is true that your dreams reflect your thoughts, and sadly to say they obviously do not reflect reality, but what we sometimes want to be our reality. All i can say to you is just give it time. Time heals many wounds.