kenneth05
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big turn on!!
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No. Nothing wrong with you in this situation. I am in a similar situation. My wife blames every problem in our marriage on me. I went to a therapist and the therapist asked my why I continue to stay in the marriage. I still don't know, but think about it every day. I know everything is not my fault, but I can't bring myself to leave. There are children. I am now starting to think that leaving might actually be good for the children as the marriage is so broken. You don't need marriage counseling. Your wife needs help.
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I can't seem to take any action at all and I am terribly frustrated.
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](*,) A friend has quote Dr. Laura to me recently. "In mariages in trouble hope is just disappointment delayed." I think this is a paraphrase, not an exact quote. Any comments?
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Your husband is neither considerate nor discreet. He is setting up a situation in which he could meet someone else and have an affair. This is very dangerous territory and he may find it exciting and thrilling. But the truth of the matter is that he is showing you no consideration and is throwing away his marriage, and you should be prepared to leave. Sorry. Best of luck.
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Someone please tell me what im doing wrong?
kenneth05 replied to friendinneed89's topic in Relationship Advice
the answer is yes, you are in an abusive and controlling relationship and you are clearly being abused. you need to make strong decisions quickly. best advice: get out of it, as soon as you can. -
I am not sure about the truth. The counselor says I am a victim, my wife says I am the cause and the controller/abuser. The counselor says that this is a standard form of abuse, to blame the other person.
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A counselor told me that my relationship is one of control and emotional abuse and that I am not the abuser despite my wife saying that I am a controller and an abuser. How can I be sure what the truth is? Please help. I am so confused.
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I have seen the pain that people I know have gone through when they get divorced. I don't know if I can handle it. Please PM me if you want, can anyone who has been through divorce or is in one now help me?
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Thank you.
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Thank you. I am trying to make things work.
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Are there any benefits in getting a separation instead of a divorce? I'm confused about this and need some help. Thank you.
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Being "drunk" is overrated. Have a few, then stop. Don't become a drunk.
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There is hostility, and constant frustration. We have been to counseling. But in her mind everything is my fault. She takes no responsibility. And for her, my frustrations, well, that is my concern and has nothing to do with her.
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I think I do. But why should my love for someone cause me such pain and frustration? I don't understand.