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Conversation by Richard Bandler and Owen Fitzpatrick

With respect: this is Dating what you are talking about. This is not a car to ask for a fast advice like: I ran out of fuel tell me quick what I should do! If you work on fast advices you'll get only fast answers but not girls. And to answer your question: Date them both! It's easy.

After 3 years of hard work I notice the reality: Dating and Shy people don't go together! I know there are a lot of people in the shy situation ( I've been like that too ). But one again the 2 concepts don't go together. You want to know why? If you are shy you wait, and while you are waiting some one comes and takes the girl. And I don't think that is your idea about Dating. The first thing to do is not to think about being shy. Ask yourself: How can I have power when I Date a women? One more thing, until some one reply: you don't want to be shy … You want to Date!!! So start Dating!

In Dating you don't wait! You know what happens when you wait? Some one else comes to her and takes her. Just like in life. To answer you first question: if you want to talk to her go talk and if you don't ... move on. But stop thinking some much and act in a way, any way.

Why wait? You want to date her or not? And be carefull that you are doing the same mistake as the last boyfriend: being briends ( and that does not get you to have sex! )