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It's just a simple play on words. I'm not sure what I intend to tell here. Above all, I'm looking for a cleaner ending ha. Any Ideas friends? Should I expand or would I exhaust the concept? These eyes they see the things I saw, The things I see, these eyes, they saw. The mind I own, thought's think it knows, It thinks the thoughts I mind, you know, If ever thinks these balls that hang, Don't shoot your men a'midst a bang.

to me, a sexy girl would have to posess... *class *a sense of mystery *plays a light game of hard to get *intelligent, values integrity *physically attractive *and most importantly way out of my league...

and no one has mentioned birth control why?

Hey Aquaman, I'm in nearly the same predicament... Mind you, I made the ignorant decision of maintaining my dignity and not proposing a clear effort on advancing the relationship... She said that she would contact me, never did, and I grasped my pride and thereforeeee did not followthrough... I lethargically assumed it to be a logical action is sit around and wait... Guess what? I'm still single, but starting to date around... Please, please, please don't make the mistake that I have made... Ant1975 proves a substantial point, but is entirely irrational in this scenario... It's cost and benefit, if you contact her and things go great, teriffic! If they do not, you will no longer waste your time and there is a sense of closure and "peace of mind" without having played the guessing game... what if? That's basically where I'm at right now, just wondering... It's been so long that it's obviously not advancing... But what do you have to lose? You have more to gain in either outcome, so implement a personal favor for me and contact her... Don't let "well she may not be interested" desistance and/or justify an excuse not to call her... Because I realize how easy that is... Also, UPDATE us on how everything goes!! Best wishes...

Things went somewhat sour with a girl that i like and she told me to text her next time i was working and she'd see me... i told her it's all good and that she didn't have to stop by (stubbornly thinking by then she wasn't interested)... well she hasn't called me for ages (when she said she would) and i want to give it one more chance seeing as i work wednesday... should i text (would call but she's working at that time) when i work this week? even though i ignorantly told her she didn't have to stop by? hmmm... if you've read my previous posts, this is the same girl... thanks in advance!

Sunshine, I believe I've found your answer right there... why would jealousy spur if he's interested in you only as a friend?

thanks batya, you're absolutely right, i was going to call but i thought she had work today and enduring the massive amounts of stress i came to make the poor choices that i did... i'm ridiculously over-analytical to the point it drives me insane... i tried asking her out, but she said she would call me if she felt up to it (she had work 3-11 mon-fri)... so i assumed the worst... never has a girl confused me so much, i feel like my time and energy has been consumed by a girl with drained interest and i should (as much as i hate to say it) move on and find someone worth my time... any thoughts? i'd hate to call after having received a text like that... is it time to throw the towel in, or not quite yet?

*UPDATE* i worked the shop (where i met her) today and she didn't stop by... so i text her... (which i probably messed up big time but i was stressed) ME= Sunshine! Thanks for stopping by! Haha, i can take a hint... doesn't mean u should be a stranger though lol... but what's new? HER= Im sry i didnt know you where in today i had to run out cuz i am picking my friend up from the airport but when ur in again text me so i kno is that a nice way of her saying she isn't interested? is she still playing hard to get? she totally danced around the intent of my text... ugh, she is so confusing, i'm not sure where to go from here... to call her after i told her she doesn't have to stop by if she doesn't want to, or to wait until next time i work and hope she comes in? blah!

right, i agree entirely, but it's strange how a night like that could lead to nothing but smiles and a hug... hmmm...

i won't waste anytime... i met this absolutely amazing girl (kaitlin), that i basically fell in love with THE first time i laid my eyes on her while at work a few weeks ago. we hit it off amazingly and i got her number before even having had a chance to ask for it... i called the following day and set up a "date" for the beach a few days later... we had decent conversation and overall a great time (mind you i was with my friend and his gf)... my friend and i went back to her (kaitlin's house) and hung by the pool... she mixed very weak alcoholic drinks and we chatted for awhile... she got close to me and eventually was leaning her head on me and grabbing my arm... it was time to head home so we made plans for that night... the night came and we went to this small party together, we had a few beers and got closer throughout the night... (her sobriety level was extremely high and by no means is she a lightweight)... she made some advances and i went with it... to the point she was laying on me, holding hands the whole time and eventually kissing... she invited me back to her house (and i knew what that meant, or assumed atleast) but i have more respect for girls than that so i told her that i couldn't stay out too late... it was getting to be time to go, and we held hands and she leaned on me all the way back to my car... i drove her home and just to test her i went to give her a hug, keeping my face angled away from hers, however she went for me and we ended up making out for awhile... she told me to call her, and we'd hang out soon... i called 2 days later, asking her if she wanted to see my friend's men's league soccer game with some friends, she said it sounded great but had her studies and stated the next day would be better... i then called her and invited her to a pool hall with a group of friends, however, when she showed up it was as if nothing had ever happened, a quick hug and we were very distant throughout the night... when i walked her to her car she said she would give me a call... i waited a week... i called her after have waiting the week in weak anticipation of receiving a call... i asked if she wanted to hang out the following weekend, but before i could ask that question she mentioned she had work from 3-11 fri-sun (which was true) and would call me if she felt up to it... a few points that should be plotted... *she's had the flu recently and a lot of work so hasn't been feeling well at all... *i never (until the last phone call) made plans to hang with her alone, but rather with friends (which could have possibly thrown her off?) *she was coming on VERY strong at the beginning, making her intentions very clear, such as plans to go on roadtrips, other countries, etc... however hasn't mentioned such since... perhaps she backed off a bit and is playing hard to get? my questions are as follows... did i really mess up by not asking her out on a "date" just the two of us until so late? do you believe that she has lost interest or since she was clear with what she wanted, that she is waiting for me to make a move? when/should i call her and set something up for this weekend? when do i give up? being very blunt and asking her if that night was just a one night thing (after asking her out one last time and only if she doesn't commit) would kill anything that is left? i appreciate it guys...

just curious (for a motivation booster and perhaps a bit of fun)... what experiences have you personally encountered (or witnessed) where a guy/girl is totally thrown off by the other, sending weird signals, yet a relationship is developed? or not? thank you guys for your time!

it's a pretty general question, if someone you take interest in turns out to lack experience with the tongue, is that a slight disappointment to you or a major turnoff?

not necessarily applying to me... but does that just kill it for you?

woah woah woah, guys don't even play me like that!! she wanted to go out and have good time! haha, she was rubbing up on me and wanted me to go back to her place, but i knew what was up so i declined her offer, because i respect women and could never go down that path! even after she ate, sobered up even more and i dropped her off, i went to give her a hug and she pulled me to her and we made out... we were holding hands the entire night... anyway, i'm just hoping that wasn't the two beers "talking" and not her... the next time i hung out with her it was like a friend thing, but we were in a different environment with a bunch of my friends whom she didn't know...

thanks guys! well i realize it lowers inhibitions, but if a girl only has a beer or two it can't be a drastic change, can it? so basically it can alter their inhibitions yet they can maintain sobriety? more input would be greatly appreciated!