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  1. I went 6 months no contact with my ex last year. I was extremely depressed and wanted her back. Finally I got ever it moved on and became happy. That's when she wanted me back. We got back together and have been living together for 7 months. Now were both miserable and worse off than when we broke up last year. Going to counseling tomorrow to see if we can get on the same page.. My point: be careful what you wish for folks. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  2. This was the first thread I found alright after I was left. I was so happy because I thought the magic trick was to leave her alone... But guys and girls: the reality is they will only come back to you it they want too.. So yes the idea is give them space so you don't further mess things up. But don't have expectations for them to come back! Change into the best possible version of yourself. That's all you can do! Only good will follow
  3. Day 20.. Crazy we lived together broken up and had to see each other and say hi and bye so I know that shouldn't count but its been 20 days or real hard vote nc since she left and its very strange.
  4. Day 16 You were a tough one day 16. I woke up from a dream with you that put me in the negative from the get go. I just wish things were different. I wish you could forgive me for getting so lazy and taking things for granted. I've learned such a valuable lesson. I just die at the reality of what was lost to learn this lesson. I miss you k
  5. Went on my first hike since we broke up.. I've never been with out you so naturally I'm thinking about you the entire time. I thought about texting u this but decided it wasn't worth breaking nc for because it wouldn't mean anything to you.
  6. Day 14 strict nc 19 days since she moved out 90 days since BU ( wow that seems like alot of days) almost texted her a funny picture I saw that I knew she would have laughed at.. But I was honest with myself and knew it wasn't a good idea
  7. Day 13. Eff off!! I'm on a one way street
  8. This day is so hard. I don't mean with my sadness. Just the urge to text her and say hi or tell her I miss her ect.. I know it doesn't matter because if she felt the same I'd probably hear from her by now? Then I think so myself maybe she does miss be but she's doing the same thing with nc.
  9. Went out last night for cinco de mayo. Was terrified id see her out. Really glad I didn't. Day 11 I think was today.
  10. It's been 2 weeks since you moved out. It's been very empowering living alone. It's been 10 days since full blown NC I don't know how long I will expect a text or a call from you? I still get disappointed when I check my phone and see nothing. I know it will fade with time. I've committed to positive thinking because I know this is a storm that will pass. Either outcome will prove to be okay. a/ we get back together as better versions of ourselves or i take these hard learned lessons and make my next relationship a success.
  11. It's now a week with no contact. With all of this space and time am reading other people situations I have convinced myself that there must be some one else in her life. She has to be interested in some one else. We spent 3 years together and lived together. I know we had problems.. Alot of which are because I lost my manhood. I let myself go.. But in 3 months post breakup I'm in better shape then when we met. I feel good about myself and the only thing I'm missing is her now. If I had her I would have all the confidence in the world. I lm not ready to let go. After 30 days I'm going to reach out to her and ask to have a lunch meeting. I want answers for closure. Have you been seeing anyone? Do you want me to leave you alone forever? Is it really dead? Then good bye. From that point if she see's I've corrected my flaws and it doesn't effect her ill have to throw out memories away.
  12. Today is a mental struggle. I want to ask her so bad to meet up with me. But I know it's useless!! Need to clear my brain.
  13. Day 6 I told myself I was going to stay away from ena to continue my progress but I'm feeling kinds low today. It's been more then 6 days since some time of contact but 6 true days. Nothing sent by her or me. I'm a roller coaster or emotion. I go through moments if clarity and peace followed by anger and hatred. Then I'm sad then happy.. Ect ect I deleted her number so I don't call or text her. I know no good will come of it. I'm tired of checking my phone waiting for this stranger to reach out to me.
  14. I hope my suspicious thoughts are not true. I believe now that while we were living together you became interested in another guy. I know you wouldn't cheat on me but I believe that's why you were so ready to move out. It could be my brain but who knows.. I will not ask about the guy in the photos because it will not change. What done is done.
  15. I've been trying to stay Nc for about 2 weeks.. I've had to reply to msgs regarding our living situaion. Now that she's out I am very anxious. I don't know how ill feel it I get nothing from her.. I'm expecting things and I know I shouldn't..
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