bella_1976

theses days you can take a needle for birth control that totally stops your period so you can have sex all you want and cant fall pregnant. You take the needle every 3 months check it out with your OBGYN as i come from australia and not sure if it is in the States.

Thanks guys for your info I am 29 years old and have already 4 kids but havent been sure about this cycle business. (if i did i wouldnt have 4 kids) my cycle is on a 28 day and finally i got my period 3 days ago. (thank god) The reason why i was asking i went to a party and god really drunk and some people told me i had sex with my ex and the next day he told me the condom broke. (as i am married happly so i was so scared). My husband had his tubes done so we cant have any more kids. So thats why i turned to the form to seek help and i didnt know what to do. Believe me i have learnt my lession i am not going out partying again with this one friend.

I was in your situation but found out he was having an affair. But in your case i dont think this is the case. If you strongly think that he is having an affair i would either sit him down and tell him your feelings get a book and start a diary and let your husband read it. get some incents and start burning them around the house for stress relief And also if a man is having an affair and if you can go and look into his cell phones as men usually have something in them if they are having an affair if there is nothing more then likely he isnt.

I have been in this same situation but i was the girl. When i was 16 i had sex with this guy i was dating. We had only been together for 2 weeks and i become pregnant the first time we had sex. As time went on i didnt find out i was pregnant til i was 2 months along. I told the guy as soon as i found out and he said he wanted to have something to do with the baby but because he was 17 years old he said he couldnt. I had the baby and 5 years ago he came out of the blu and wanted a DNA test as he wanted to know if she was his. (knowing i was only with him). It turned out to be his and i contacted his family to say that they had a granddaughter. The reason why i am sharing this with you as he wasted 5 years of his life and missed out on 5 years which is really important. If i was you i would tell your parents as you are going to need support from them have the DNA test arranged before she has the baby and the day that child is born i would make her take the test if you dont and it turns out to be yours you are going to regreat it for the rest of your life. If the child isnt yours i would make sure through the courts that she has to pay you back for the DNA as the courts can do that. And i would make sure you are going to be in there with her as it is a great experience and be strong as you have the right to be in the delivery room knowing you may be the father but dont sign anything til the DNA test is done. I hope that helps you. Bella

I had sex on day 20 of my cycle and the condom broke and i am now wondering if i was in the safe time of my cycle for this to happen. I cant afford right now for the morning after pill and i am scared out of my mind can anyone help me. Tina