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I think she likes you for what its worth. She may be intimidated by you a little because you're probably not showing her the time of day. It looks like shes obviosly trying desperately to get your attention but you are still trying to figure out if she really likes you or not. But how will either of you ever know if one of you dont break the ice. Just ask her. sure everyone hates rejection but its not the end of the world. remember be yourself because women (some) can smell a fony from a mile away. And dont keep wondering what to do. some thing require a leap. you dont want her to get bored especially if shes the flirt you friend says she is you might miss an opportunity. and that whole boyfriend thing I think is a bunch of B.S. she wants you. 'cause you da man. [/b]

It seems to me that this girl doesn't know what she wants. personally would never trust a girl that would break up with someone to be with me. I would always feel she would do the same to me. she knew she still had feelings for her ex when she broke it off. He probably moved on with his life after she left and when she decided to come back he just wasnt having it. She was probably using you as a rebound or backup. I wouldn't be surprised if she ended up alone just for being greedy. But enough about her. you are the one with the issue. I say if you have the will power unlike most, including myself, then the hell with her she had her chance and she blew it. but if you really have feelings for this girl and you are willing to give her another chance, go for it. Make sure you prepare for anything. She may still be confused. I wish you the best of luck. And from what I hear old wounds do heal.

My boyfriend broke up with me and I want to move on. Well sometimes I think I want to move on but most of the time I just hope and pray that he would just come back. I've tried to seek advice from others, I've even tried comparing my relationship with others but I always end up still wanting him back. I wasn't ready for him to leave. I was comfortable with our relationship, so comfortable in fact, that I didn't plan living without him. How could he just up and leave me? What did I do? I loved him so much I still do and I know it may sound stupid of me but I still wait on his return. Everyone thinks I've moved on and I led them to think that only to spare myself from the criticism. But deep down I stiil want him. I thought that after two years this feeling would somehow go away but it won't, it haunts me every single day. I know it sounds like an obsession but please understand I gave him my heart and he left without giving it back. Sometimes I sit in bed thinking of how he hurt me and wonder why I still want him. I wonder why would anyone want someone that dont want them, but I just do. I miss him. I think he left me because I gained weight when I had our son. But he could have just left because one day he woke up and wonder what the hell he was doing with this ugly girl. Just listening to this is making me feel dumb. I just want to move on, he did. He got married. How could he marry her when I love him. And why do I love him and he married her. That would be the last straw for any sane person, but not me, what is it going to take for me to let him go. I don't want to let him go I want him to come back. God help me!

I been with this guy going on two years. He's a really nice guy I mean we do have our ups and downs but over all he never disrespect me he doesn't cheat on me and from what he says he really does love me. But I don't know if I really love him. See before him there was this guy, and I really believe he was THE GUY. I gave my heart to him with no questions asked he was my everything. But I dont think he felt the same for me because after being with him for six years he just left. And there are no words to explain how that made me feel. All I know is some days I just felt like giving up on life. I felt there really wasn't a need to live being that the one person that I lived for doesn't want me. I'm still here as you can see because in the mist of my relationship with the guy, we had a baby together. I thank God for my son because he is the real reason I am still here today. I still cry myself to sleep at night or when I here the phone ring pray to God that its him on the other end. I miss the sound of his voice I miss how he made my worries vanish. And I feel guilty when I go to bed at night with a totally different guy and wish that he was the one who has my heart. I hate myself. I know thats a harsh thing to say but its true I hate myself for not being who he wanted me to be. I think I've hated myself for as long as I could remember but when I was with him it really didn't matter that I wasn't perfect because he loved me at least thats what I thought. Its been over two years now and it still hurts like it was yesterday. somebody help me. I need to get some kind of control over my life. I need this pain to go away because it hurts too much. He's married now. talk about adding insult to injury. I thought he wanted to be alone why didnt he want me. I hate her for being what I couldn't. do you think he will ever come back...