i was seeing this guy for about six months. he is 24 and i am 21. things were really starting to develop really well between us. he told me that he loved me and i loved him too. i have never felt this way about anyone before. now i'm feeling like he may have been using me. he went back to his country for a month and it was hard for him to call since it is very expensive but he called once to say how much he missed me. then the day he came home, he acted like there was nothing between us. he came back this entirely new person. we work together at a restaurant. he is the manager and i am a server. its really against store policy for us to date but we keep it a secret. he always said that what we have was between us, not us and everyone else. he said he didn't care what everyone would think if they found out. i think we have talked outside of work maybe three or four times since he has been home which is about a month. everytime i call him to ask him what has happened with us he would say it was nothing i did or didn't do and he would say he was tired and had to go. whenever our friends would be going out i would ask him if he wanted to come he would say no he was tired or something. but then someone else would ask him if he wanted to go out with them and he would go. its really bugging me that he won't talk to me about why he doesn't want to be with me . i'm okay with the fact that he doesn't want to be with me. i just want to know why but i tired of asking. please help me. thank you so much...
michelle m
