rousedaj

I really like this girl in my youth group. She is six months older than me. I am 17 she is 18. Her father is the youth pastor and a good friend he does not allow her to date until in college. We both would not date until college. I have known her for several years and know a lot about her and just lately we have gotten closer. Sometimes she will stick around after youth group activities and talk a while. We talk for a little while every once and a while we talk about past expieriences and some of what we like stuff like that not too intiment. I like her for her personality most of all and she just happens to look good. She is good with kids and is going into some type of children's medical care. She laughs at all my jokes. She looks into my eyes when we talk. One day my friend told her that I like her and asked if she liked me and she was smiling and blushing and said no I wouldn't date until college anyhow. We are just friends. Her sister doesn't like me she said she had better not make her related to me. Her father believes that you should be friends during high school until college. One day when we were eating at her house me and her and her parents and the conversation somehow got to her parents wedding day she didn't bring it up it was brought up by her parents. The other day I was leaving the room and she started to follow I held the door and once she was outside the door she said she accidentally forgot that she had to stay. Do you think she likes me. She leaves this summer for college and I the next year. I fear that I might never get a chance to get serious with her and whether this is that kind of relationship. But I do not want to ruin our friendship. I need help I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. Do you think she likes me and what would be the best route to take this relationship on.

I have one piece of adivice for you. Stop having sex until you are married. I dosn't matter if he is "ok with having a baby" it is not time for you to be a mother. You might think you are but you are not and you are ruining your life as long as your children's and everyone around you that cares about you. Sex was planned to be for marriage for two people that are legally bound to each other. Love does not have anything to do with it if you are not married you shouldn't have sex. Sex with someone outside of a marriage will only lead to problems like you have. You need to get yourself away from all these "relationships" with your boyfriends so you can see clearly. If you stop and consider what I am saying you will begin to agree with what I am saying. You done what you have done and you cannot change that but you can change you future. Listen to what you parents have to say and be patient they know what is best for you. They may not be perfect but they love you the way you ought to be loved. Don't ruin you life with some sweet talking good looking guy that is just in it for the sex. A man who really loves you will want you to wait. Someone who cares about you will think about how this will affect your future and will do what is best for you. This "Love" thing you have with your boyfriend will cloud your mind when making descions that you will have to make. Give your self a break and think for your self and see what is best for you and your kids and do not worry about your boyfriends.

I know a girl in my youth group that I have a big crush on. I have a gut feeling that she likes me. I have know her for 5 years and I know a lot about her. Her dad is the our youth pastor and a real good friend. She is the first girl I have known that I liked for her personality rather than for her body. She doesn't date and I don't want to ask her. She is going to college in Florida this fall and I might be going to college in Illinois but we both have the same career in mind. What can I do to "get" her. I'm afraid she might meet someone before she can give me a chance. I have a feeling that she could be the one and I don't want to lose her. I don't have much time and I couldn't stand to see her go without letting her know how I feel. If you have advice go ahead and give it to me any and all advice is helpful.

I know a girl in my youth group that I have a big crush on. I have know her for 5 years and I know a lot about her. Her dad is the our youth pastor and a real good friend. She is the first girl I have known that I liked for her personality rather than for her body. She isn't the type that dates in high school and she is going to college in Florida this fall and I will be going to college in Illinois. How can I tell if she likes me. And what can I do to impress her. I'm afraid she might meet someone before she can give me a chance

I know a girl in my youth group that I have a big crush on. Her dad is the our youth pastor and a close friend. I am sort of the youth group clown and I make a lot of corny joke that everyone laughs at and she laughs too. I am also a spiritual leader in the youth group. We are both planning to go into the same ministry. We are both in the choir. Whenever we talk and have a conversation she looks into my eyes. She is sooooo beautiful and have the most beautiful eyes. She is the first girl I have known that I liked her for her personality rather that her body. She isn't the type that dates at this early of an age and she is go to college in Florida this fall and I will be going to Illinois. I am curious if she likes me and what would be the best way to let her know how I feel without harming our friendship.