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  1. oh if someone feels the need to get all up in arms with me over music then whoop-tee-doo....like I said...the lyrics and the message of the song are great...just not a fan of the rest is all I'm sure doyathink would say the same for some of my favorite groups...no biggie...such is life
  2. Oh I totally agree...the lyrics are great...
  3. good lyrics... too bad the singer, band, and the song itself are completely horrible.... win some, loose some I guess
  4. That sucks....I am really sorry for ya man....sounds like you are in a lot of pain... Since I don't know the full details of how long you two were together and on what terms you ended I cant say if you were in the right or in the wrong for doing what you did. If you were together for a year or more and she ended it because she just wanted some space or something....then you really didn't do anything all that wrong...it was only natural for you to react like that and frankly I don't blame ya.... But if this relationship was shorter than a year and ended because someone did something bad to the other one...then sorry to say...but you were totally in the wrong. Now you gotta move on and forget about her....just force yourself past the hurt. Honestly what I have done when I have been in situations like this is use that hurt and anger and take it to the gym...amazing what you can do good for your body when your heart is broken....use it as motivation to get in better shape and feel good about yourself. anyway you cut it man...i am sorry to say it....but she is gone....
  5. For me personally and in my situation as to why I want to go back to my ex.... because we fit together perfectly on the couch. because after spending two and a half years together we had learned eachothers sexual behaviors and the things she did wern't weird or kinky or anything like that...but they were just the little stupid things that turned me on more than anyone else ever did. because her family and mine get along well. because when my job or anything else stressed me out too much she is the only person that could tell me "its gonna be ok" and make me feel better because I believed her because I took her for granted that she would just be there always, and once I lost her I realized how much of my life I had lost, and how important she was to me, and how much I loved her. because she and I had our own language because I know how great of a mother/wife she will be one day and I want to be the fater/husband because we compliment eachother, in the way that I am loud and outgoing, while she is more quiet and reserved. but when we get together I get to see her outside of the public eye and its more wonderful than I could have ever imagined. because her eyes could penetrate my soul. because she is who she is, unlike any other girl in the world because I love her
  6. Damn good for you man. I wish I could do the same thing you are. grats on waking up and smelling the thorns. Hope all turns out well for you
  7. From a guys perspective... I have had girl friends that I have had feelings for other than friendship that I did express a time or two. Sometimes I was getting mixed signals from the girl and didn't know what to think so I just asked and other times it was just unknown completely. but all in all I have found that honesty is hands down the best way to deal with it. just say you dont have those kinds of feelings for him but that you do still value and want to continue your friendship. and then make no further referance to it. honestly it took a lot of courage of the guy to come out with saying that, and to just tell him you dont feel that way for him and then stop talking or wanting to hang out or when you do hang out everything seems weird will just make it suck for both of you. He is just checking things out....and who can blame him for that? he isn't trying to poop on your friendship, he is just seeing if you have similar feelings beyond it that he has too but are unable to come out with. once you tell him you don't then he will feel embarrased and uncomfortable for a bit, but once you two hang out and your show him that it hasn't affected your friendship then he will be right back to being a cool friend to have around.
  8. true not ALL guys are that way...but a good majority. even the sweetest and most caring guys can miss the most obvious hints in a relationship. But hey girl with the issue..... If the guy has cheated on you in the past he will more than likely do it again....its just the nature of the beast, once a cheat always a cheat. The guy obviously doesn't realize what your worth and isn't worth the love you give him. if you are truly in love with the guy then there is very little I or anyone else can say that will make you drop the hope and feelings for the future you have with him. Hell, I am in a crappy deal right now with my ex and I cant give it up either even though I know I have to. The truth is though that there are guys out there that will care for you in a way that you diserve, take some time off and just figure things out in your head as to what you really want. I hope you get to feeling better and that everything for you works out.
  9. go for the kiss on the cheek. forget about anything her friends said. dont stress out and make this a bigger deal than what it needs to be. just keep it simple...and have fun
  10. not a problem man...glad I can help. You sound like a great kid, and she sounds like a really great girl, so I hope it all works out for you. post something in september or october and give us an update on how its going. But I am totally serious about the gym part man...even if she thinks your a cute guy and even if you work out now....get as much gym time in as you can. your in college and your on summer break...that means you wake up at noon start drinking beer at 1 and dont stop till 4am every day...well thats what it was for me. but take some time and get cut up, tan and clean your damn house!!! these are three simple things that while they wont change a girls opinion about a guy completely, they will lower any reservations about him... Best of luck bro...
  11. 1) you dont have to be all alone....some of the best first kisses with girls I ever had were in public places. just walking down a beach, or at an amusement park right before the safty bars drop on a roller coaster....things like that 2) it doest have to be big.... something simple and sweet will work 3) you can go all 100% of the way if you want to with your kiss...this isn't hitch and your not paying some guy to teach you how to live. if you want to just lean in and put one on her then do it, but make sure she is ready. 4) make sure she is ready, if not then you can really make it out to be an awekward moment. 5) use the force....you will be able to tell if its the right time or not, just go with what your heart tells you and you will have no regrets.
  12. Well if she lives close enough to you to be able to just take her the stuff then do it. if not then mail her the shirts and get the bike to one of her friends houses or something like that. by holding that stuff you are empowering her to have a continual excuse to stop by or to call you or whatever. and if you truly want this to stop then do something about it. if you want to have a reason to see her again then keep ahold of the stuff and realize then that you have deeper issues about this than just the stuff. OH and btw...yes all girls are crazy.. and girls yes all guys are idiots....so its balanced
  13. Easy there killer... You sound somewhat like me when I was your age. I was in a house and had girls all around, but like you I wasn't shy as far as I will go up and talk to anyone and do crazy stuff in public but when it came to relationship stuff I just never could muster up the courage to say what I felt. so I ended up having a lot of girl friends in college and not many "girlfriends"(too many one night stands though!) so I know where your at man and I know it sucks. My advice is that you have to play this time apart from eachother very very cool... I mean honestly if you tell her over the phone or whatever that you wanted to kiss her the other night then what is she going to say??? oh I wanted to kiss you too lets make out on the phone??? prolly not. just be cool right now with everything and let the summer run its course. establishing a friendship with a girl before dating is by far and away the best thing to do and thats what you have done so far. so dont make the mistake of blurting out all these emotions and all this soft hearted crap all over the phone. it just wont work, it will give her too much to think about and could scare her off. because right now it sounds like she is out just having fun not doing anything and being a kid on break. I know it all hurts inside to have so much pent up but use that to go to the gym and get your beer drinking gut worked off. feed off of that energy to take this month and a half and get buffed up some and get a tan, then when she sees you in september there will be her friend in a new body that she cant help but notice. by the time the first date party you guys have in the fall you will know if it will work or not. just play the game right now my friend....thats all I can tell you..
  14. Oh jebus... Your 21 years old.... Grow up some and honestly deal with this like an adult. If you want better treatment from a guy simply ask for it and be open and honest with him about it. Dont play stupid games and dont just drop hints.... HINTS DONT WORK ON GUYS!!!! we are simple animals and use words like "yes" and "no" for 95% of our answers to questions we ask one another....the other 5% usually has something to do with sports or useless barroom trivia. so if you want results then ask for em. if you dont get the disired results make sure your asking for the right thing. and if the guy is too much of a tool to give you everything you diserve then dropkick him to the curb and press on with a new guy. BUT please whatever you do...dont just break up with him and expect him to know what it was all about without you communicating everything to him. this is just a crappy thing to do, it leaves someone feeling like they have had thier trust violated and really hurt. Careful with your plans....
  15. Telephone song-- Mark David Manders You dont even know me -- Mark David Manders Jenny came back from California ---Cross Canadian Ragweed Telephone romeo -- Jason Boland Work this out -- Jack Ingram See you in the next life -- Eleven Hundred Springs New Years Day -- Charlie Robison Allways on my mind -- Willie nelson Crazy Eddies last Hurrah -- Reckless Kelly (*warning* this song is one butt kicking song about a guy that goes out and gets drunk then drives over to her house and shoots the new guy. its based on a true story that happened to a post college age guy in oklahoma) ok and a few non country pics..... Sylvia's Mother -- Dr. Hook and the Medicine show Sail On -- Lionel Richie Break Your heart -- Bare Naked Ladies Sorry most of this is country...its just what I listen to mostly and in my opinion nothing tells a sad story like a country song. good luck
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