hk87
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That is amazing. I wish I could write poetry like that. Congrats, its beautiful. Hk87
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Have any of you had an incorrect first impression of someone?
hk87 replied to Kalika's topic in Dating Advice
Yeah! definitely. I started talking to someone last year and he thought I was really annoying and girlie- a year on and we're really good friends and I can't imagine not talking to him now! It's weird how some friendships/ relationships turn out. Hk87 -
Tell me about it, my dad goes insane every time the news appears on TV.
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Hazey Amber I am one, and my dad is, and I know a great many. The Muslim religion is generally speaking seen to be very strict
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Day Walker: Muslim men can date or marry Jews, Christians and Muslims, it is only Muslim women who are only allowed to date Muslims. My dad is a strict muslim, my mum was a christian and I have been brought up muslim, but not strictly. I have many of the same beliefs as you. Your boyfriend may become stricter as time goes on, as his family would prefer him to marry within his faith and there might be pressure on you to convert. However, he also may not mind and you will live together peacefully. Males do tend to dominate in the Muslim faith but not always. I have yet to see where this is not the case though when they are married. It is a tricky situation as Muslims are altogether pretty strict on everything they do. Hk87
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You aren't keeping something life or death from her, but as Agent said, using discretion is what it is all about! Don't upset someone like that again, no matter how bad you feel now, it was wrong of you to tell her. Hk87
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Making out is a type of intimacy on its own. It should not always lead to sex. Kissing, cuddling etc are all parts of showing someone you love them and care for them. I would feel let down if my b/f always wanted sex only from me! Hk87
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Maybe confirm that he actually has a g/f?
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The touch you, look into your eyes, make exuses to talk to you, try find you all the time. Although, some friendly people are very like that. It really depends on the situation Hk87
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Wow, that is SO sweet and considerate of you! I did something very similar for a friend last year. We were at an event and there was a reading from a particular book. I got in contact with the man who had done the reading, and found which book it was etc and got it for my friend as a gift. Definitely give him it though. I wish I had a friend like that.
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Dreams are the best- I adore them! I love that phase when your sort of asleep but not quite and your thinking of anything and everything in any way you wish! In dreams anything is possible Hk87
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I'll keep this brief, but all help would be appreciated greatly! Basically I have feelings of more than friendship for my friend. All his friends, and mine say we should go out as it's obvious we both like each other. However, he recently told me of a crush he has on another girl. No-one else but me knows this, and it makes me feel really awkward when everyone else is saying we should be together as we're made for each other. We are very close, and spend a ridiculous amount of time together and argue like a couple and tease each other etc. I should add that nothing can happen between him and this other girl due to circumstances for another few years at least. I would like to believe the others and hope there could be something between us, but I still have that niggle at the back of my mind about him telling me about this other girl. ](*,) I really can't get him out of my head. What can I do guys? Thanks,
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How are female friends different from male friends?
hk87 replied to Eddward's topic in Friendship and Friends
When a guy opens up to a girl, it means he really really trust her. I get on better with guys. I feel they will listen to me without judgement but offer advice where they think is appropriate. I enjoy having both however, as it depends on what type of mood I'm in, depends which one I feel the need to talk to. I think it is healthy to have friends of both sexes as both compliment each other and bring different view points to your life. HK87 -
Honestly it gets better. I was in exactly the same position as you this time last year. I go home less frequently now, and everyone has moved on. You meet new friends, make new memories although you never forget what happened in high school. I didn't realise it then, but it was the best time of my life and I deeply regret not having enjoyed it as much as I should have. I was always so desperate to leave, but high school gave me the best friends ever, a routine and all the freedom to do what I needed. I do like University now I'm here and settled in, but I worry about what will happen when I leave- will I keep the few good friends I've made here? I don't know, only time will tell. Keep positive though, it's the only way to get through this. Good Luck, pm me if you wish. Hk87
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Not technically true- I love a guy who can show me there is more to him than being macho all the time. I think the girl either likes you or doesn't like you. Over time feelings may develop through close friendships, but not always. A lot of the time attraction and feeling is based on the first meeting of a particular person. Hk87