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  1. Well....this may sound strange....but the one I feel sorry for here is the dog. I think the dog would be better off with you and your daughter. Do you think there is any way that you could get custody of the dog? Do you think he would give up the dog? I understand the bond to pets. And I have no doubt the dog was severely depressed when you were gone...he misses you and your daughter. If you can't get the dog, either because he won't part with him...or because if you had the dog he would still stay in contact....then it's just best to break all ties. No more doggy visitations and no doggy babysitting. It's a shame for the dog. That may sound strange to some...but I have more love for animals than most people.LOL
  2. Sorry to be so harsh...but I did leave out one very important thing.... I don't know what she may be thinking....but I personally would never embark in a serious relationship with a man unless he accepted and included my son in the relationship. Otherwise I have no need for a man except for maybe an occasional no strings attached booty call. I think your girl is confused....she wants you, but doesn't feel very secure with you just wanting her...but not her child. That would be a very, very unsettling feeling. It feels like rejection on many different levels. And with her having severe trust issues in the first place...it just magnifies the intensity of it. Her having a son is not the problem....it's the expectations you have is what the problem is.
  3. Okay...I'm going to be very blunt here. I think you are wasting your time. You need to move on. She does have commitment issues...it sounds like she didn't have a stable home her entire childhood and that would mess up anyone. And she had her baby's father run off. So she is/has went through hell. I'm not trying to excuse her negativity toward you. Now...as far you go....sorry to tell you, but that child will be #1 in her life as long as it's under 18. I am a single mother raising a son who just turned 6. And I have to tell you that no man will ever come before my son. Not that I wouldn't have a relationship with a man(I'm in one now and happy) or even get married....but my child comes first...that is just a normal mother reaction. And I am not trying to be a jerk....I am just trying to make you understand how a mother who cares about her child thinks. I wasn't really crazy about your statement: Due to her commitment she is forced to make with her child. Ummm...she purposely had the child...and I am sure loves him dearly. I honestly doubt she looks at it like it's the burden you made it sound like. I wasn't very crazy about your attitude towards her child. The child comes with the package in her case and unless you can commit to that child...then you need to drop the whole thing and move on. You didn't come off like you attempted to bond with her child and I am sure that very much unimpressed her. Why she is still talking about you is anyone's guess.....but I think it's best for both of you to go in opposite directions.
  4. First of all, I have to say Melissa, that you approached this situation with your husband WAYYYYY nicer that I would have. If I were in your shoes.....I would have told him that his time with his "little friend" was OVER. "Just friends" do not converse about "fantasizing constantly about the other one". He let it go to another level and it is NOT ACCEPTABLE. I don't care if it is over the internet and not in real life. I wouldn't allow it online or real life. What happened to talking to YOU(his life partner) about things. You should be more his friend than this girl. I think he is enjoying the attention and this girl is stroking his ego BIG TIME. I would not let this go on one more day. I would take matters into my own hands. He would be told that it's over...and that he is to email her and tell her that he is married and has no need to be cavorting online with an underage girl who wants him. I'm serious....I would make him email her and tell her it's over and WHY IT'S OVER. Then you need to change your email address. I can't believe you put up with this. I can't believe his nerve in flaunting this in your face. You and your husband need to have a serious talk.
  5. Lots of people end up marrying their high school sweetheart. So it's more than possible to carry the relationship over after high school. A lot high school romances end once the couples go their separate ways to different colleges....or they just break up to explore their new found adulthood/independence. Some just want to get out there, meet new people(ones they never went to school with), and date a variety. It just depends on the individual person, how much they feel for the other one...what direction they want their life to take after high school....their sweetheart may be a part of it...or it may not. Talking about it with your significant other and making clear your expectations will give you your answer.
  6. There has to be a line drawn somewhere. The consent law of what age it's legal to have sex is a good law. Most kids under 16 are not mentally, emotionally ready or responsible enough to have sex. What my question is: What do these 20+ year old men have in common with underage girls? Other than having sex. If my 15 year old daughter had a 20 year old man coming around...he'd hit the road or answer to the law. And if I had a 20 year old son and I found out he was having sex with a 15 year old girl...it would make my physically ill and I would be ready to knock his head in. Sorry, I can't agree with you on this....I think that a 15 year old and a 20 year old do not belong together...AT ALL. Do your parents know??
  7. Who knows what is really going in her head.....the 5 questions thing on her live journal could be some game of hers......one to which she has no intention of being honest. You never know. It doesn't make any sense at all that she would be willing to spill all on a live journal but not be 100% open with you. I'm telling you...this 5 questions thing is a little game she is playing. At least it's the only thing that makes sense.
  8. How many times do you need to be told that there will not be a video of this?? If that's what you want to see...there are adult video stores that will have something right up your alley.
  9. All I'm saying is that before two people embark on this type of adventure....both parties need to be very clear on what they expect. I didn't do that and regretted it. I'm not about to disclose my humiliation here.....I just don't want it to happen to anyone else. And just for the record....I have/do engage in this type of sex play since then....my current partner respects my boundaries.
  10. I agree with everyone here...go slow at first...because she may get somewhat frightened if she has never done this before. I'm being serious. The first time I tried it I ended up feeling humiliated and scared.....even though it was just supposed to be a game within a 2 year relationship(and it was less than a month after this that I left). He went waaay overboard. In my naive mind at the time...I thought it would be a few spanks...some tweaks....and maybe just my hands tied up....I got the shock of my life...I can't disclose the scenario, but it was too much. You two should talk more before delving into it.....you need to find out what she thinks domination is about...so there are no shocks.
  11. He's going to cry even more if you don't send him a video of that technique. For some reason he believes that can help him get a hard on without using vaigra And you call ME a bad girl? Tsk, Tsk, Tsk....grandpa is the bad one here.
  12. Not really...the one I posted is a real humdinger...I haven't found anything else THAT good. I like to try new things too....and have many times....but I also stick with what works....and feels the best.
  13. you know you're a very bad girl, you made my poor grandpa cry. He was so excited about the practice thing I am so sorry....I didn't want to make anyone cry. Like I said...he can use viagra...that get things working and he can enjoy himself all he wants...so all is not lost. I'm a bad girl, huh?? heh heh heh
  14. Umm....well....I do own some toys....but that doesn't really take any technique. I do have quite a few techniques I use on my partner. It would be pretty x-rated to post, though...at least I think it would be.
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