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  1. planning these things probably isnt the best thing. youl probably notice the right time to move in (hard to describe, everyones diff, but some full on eye contact, and close dancing are some signs lol). youl know when to stop, as shell probably slack off the kissn back and ease off. just go with the flow, and check out the other posts on first kisses..
  2. Well to start off, theres a chk that ive liked for afew months now, but was unable to do anything as i was tied down. ive been a 'free agent' for about a month now and decided might as well ask her out. Anyway she said she wanted to think about it, then came back with the i dont think itd b fair on you and me. when i askd her to expalin what she meant (im hopeless at understanding these things) she said that theres a chance just not now. shes going overseas for her karatae then when she gets back its straight into the exams. and in Jan i leave to go to uni (college to u americans) that leaves us about a month. I absolutley hate long distance so that a no. Should i wait for her? or should i just try and forget about her? shes also a friend so that wouldnt be to nice...any advice appreciated. Thanks
  3. i share the basics at parties like name, age, what college im at. thats basically it unless she asks something more. on dates? then i start asking more in depth stuff like what shes going to do after school and uni. i occasionaly lie to make myself sound better but nothing big that would piss her off if i ever got my story wrong and forgot...
  4. ever been to see a professional? most of the time they help you understand yourself or understand whats happning to you. although it may sound stupid but maybe your just...i dunno...suffering from an emotional overload? this part of your life doesn't sound very nice and is ignoring what happened any good? when something sad happens to someone else...i think what i want but i try and be caring for the person. it doesnt matter how you feel about others as long as you dont lie to yourself. no need to be pressured into doing/saying/thinking something that doesnt feel right. these issues normally run deep and people on the internet are hardly a long term solution.
  5. well 15s a nice time to start. the whole friend route can get abit dodgy down the road but is great while it lasts. other than that...you go out much? at parties start chatting to random girls or get friends to introduce you. then if the conversation takes off ask for her number then there ya go, potential. get to know her abit then pop the question(date), if its a no then she could still be a mate. its more of just going in without thinking of the consequences, the hardest part is always the first few steps. and um i dont mean to scare you but ive found that first impressions kinda count.
  6. dont see anything wrong with just meeting her there. i reckon it wouldnt look to great if you asked her to drive you round on your dates. and ice skating is fun, average date but better than the movies. then try pizza have you asked her about anything yet? o nvm saw your other post
  7. asked for her number yet? to avoid the shy paranoia of being rejected, if she hesitates have an excuse for just if she want to swap shifts or something.....other than that being shy is probably your worst downfall. save telling her your feelings for if you actually get together. how old are you? the best way to check if she wants anything is just to ask her. there comes a point where you just have to think "awww screw it" and just go for it otherwise you will get nowhere with her and many others down the track.
  8. just...talk. start it off with afew average questions then it all should just roll out. thinking just makes this whole process so much harder, just go with the flow. if the conversation is forced with question after question then you should really call back later...
  9. lol my thumbs could easily kill someone as well mmm but wouldnt those spikes get annoying? especially if you were wearing outrageously long sharp ones and bumped into someone...america right? lawsuit? but that corset thingy does look bloody nice on you.
  10. well afew pple might give u a hard time but most shuld b ok with it, sometimes its more of a shock to see how much youve changed. quick question to you goths...whats with wearing the spikes and dog collars n stuff? just curious so no need to get defensive
  11. ditch him in a nice way. he might get to hurt and just want to get back at you. be straight up and tell him that your sick of him screwing round with ur emotions. then if he still wants to be friends give him 1 chance and it he screws u round again ditch him for good. neway just dont be to mean cuz he doesnt sound like a guy that takes rejection to well.
  12. im sure hes a big boy. if it isnt deep get rid of that loose skin. otherwise if its still on whenit heals, itll leave a ugly ridge. grated my thumb when was bout 7 and left the loose skin on an i still got the lump o yea and nerves dont always have to send pain signals. again during a rugby game i got a boot to the mouth, created a 3 cm gash (6 stiches) accross my lip but didnt hurt, just numb for afew days. no pain (apart from the 2cm ulcer inside my mouth!!!) get it covered and clean and itll be all good!
  13. um unless it was dirty untreated(no chlorine or whatever) water there shouldnt be anything to worry about. but it it swells up and start leaking puss not blood, then get it check out. possible infection.
  14. nothing new there. even if it wasnt normal there nothing wrong with it is there? and w00t i luv your avatar/video. fat people when hyper look funny. in a nice way that is
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