kitkatbar6311

She probably has a thing for ya. Good going!! I give ya props, anywayz ... just be yourself. Start up a conversation and get to know her better. If ya know her better, the moe comfortable around her you are going to be. Maybe even get her some thing that she really likes for Valentines Day. Well if ya have any other questoin you can ask. Good Luck!!

Well, Alan* and I have known eachother for like .... a year, right? And I had a boyfriend already though,Jacob*. But all the sudden I have been seeing Alan alot cause Jacob can't coem and see me and call me much cause hes moving to a different location. he has put me through alot, like running away, wanting to kill himself ...etc. But I stayed with him cause I really (quote me on this) "Loved him". I told Alan everything about our realationship problems and he gave me real good advice. Little did I know that Alan liked me too, and I was starting to like him and was losing interest in Jacob day by day, week by week. Well finally I got tired of Jacob lying to me, so I broke up with him. It was the best feeling in the world, and then me and Alan started going out 2 days later. (The day me and Jacob broke up, I told Alan how I felt about him) Things was going great! I would see him everyday, we would talk everynight online, what more could I ask for?? Well ... I found out a couple of days later that he was going to a different school. Well I kept on asking questions about it, asking Are you sure it will work out? How about those other girls who will try and take you away from me? Are oyu sure you could trust me? Am I sure I could trust you?? All he said, was don't worry about it, I will work out. So I didn't worry about it. When I went on Vacation, Imissed him so much,that when I get there, I called him asap! When I called, he didn't seem very happy to hear from me. He seemed ... sad in some sort. Well They had internet there, and when I fount out, I was on like everyday at like every hour. When he was online, me and him would talk for like 30 minutes and then he would always have to go somewhere. He would start talking about other girls and everything, and naturally I got jelous. Well when I got home, I didn't see him at all like we planed too. I was so mad/sad!! Well, he broke up with me a couple of days before October started! I was so sad ... he was in my mind 24/7 for 3 months. Ijust couldn't stop thinking about him. All the sudden he started talking to me again. Of course, I inivted him to my house for New Years, and WOW! He looked so fine that I started liking him again. He told me that he liked what he saw, and right then me and him got together again. From then on we knew (Or thought) it was true love. He said that we might have our ups and downs, but we was meant to be together. A couple of weeks later he started telling me where to go and what time and that he had to go and who could and couldn't go! Well I didn't mind much ... till he said what I could and couldn't do!!! I got sooooooo mad that I just left. He said that I couldn't shop at the mall while he was there! I was like, excuse me? I'm a girl, I can do what ever I want when ever I want! Of course me and my friend from there on afterwards started to make fun of what he said (cause thats what we do when someone really gets us mad) and he just walks off, so we walk home ... an hour later (Apperently he was looking for us) he's online, all "sad". I start yelling at him. I mean, no ones gonna tell me what I can and can't do. Of course I told my best guy friends (one of them is Alans best friend) about this. They both thought it was messed and it was. So I told him ... he had two weeks to make me like him again. Well me and this one guy names Chris* became really close all the sudden (Who is like my best guy friend) and I was starting to like him. Two weeks later, I leave a message on yahoo saying that I need to talk to him about our relationship. So we talked... 10 minutes later he blocks me. He said that he could never think of me as a friend and only as his "soul mate" and it would hurt him to see me with another guy! So he blocks my mom and my best friends screen name!!! I go on my other sn that he doesn't know about, and I cuss him out and told him to unblock my best friend cause it was a lame excuse. (His excuse "You would remind me too much of Katie, so I can't talk to you") I mean, I could understand me and my mom, and her??? Thats just BS!!! Well a couple of weeks now, he has all the sudden came back into my life! What should I do??? *= Not real name by the way!

Well this is a very intresting relationship. I have been through alot, and yet I have nothing to tell ya. Except that you need to get over him. Obviously hes just using you for something, and that something I wouldn't know yet. But I just say forget him. Move on. He's gonna try and keep bringing you down till you go down with him. Or you can do something else. Then next time you see him, lay down rules for your relationship and see if that works out. And give him like a couple of weeks/months to do it, and if he doesn't then just break up with him. There are alot of guys out there, and some of them are different and the same .... you just gotts look for them! So I give ya good luck, and hope everything works out wit cha!