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  1. Well, the past few months have been pretty crazy. Her mother had a stoke around the end of summer, and since then we've been going back and forth to the hospital, and then before you know it Christmas was here, and then we went on vacation (a cruise with her brother, and friends of theirs), and while on vacation suddenly plans were being laid to get married on a cruise next January (a family friend she plans these cruises with had next year's cruise all planned out and had started booking it), and by the time we got back her family was making deposits for next year's cruise -- the wedding cruise, and she's telling all her friends and family about it, and now they are making invitations (I hope they haven't mailed them yet). Before the vacation we didn't have wedding plans set in stone yet... we had a tentative date for next February. I haven't had many recent opportunities to tell her about my feelings as her family has been around all the time, and yes, he mother's condition has made things more difficult. I think part of her hurry is that she wants to get married while her parents are still alive.
  2. Well, my feet are pretty icy at the moment. Our relationship has been through a lot of ups and downs over the past 3 1/2 years, but in retrospect it seems to have been degrading rapidly from my point of view. I'm not feeling happy with the relationship, and things seem to be getting worse rather than improving. As for her, all she seems to care about is the wedding. It's just the next item on her life agenda, and seems to be the only thing of any imporantance.
  3. I've been engaged for the past five months or so, perhaps much more due to pressure to get engaged than my own incentive, but now that a date has been set and plans are being made and invitations are about to be mailed out, I am in a very serious panic to as whether or not this is what I really want, if I'm ready to be married and even if this is the person I really want to marry. For the past few months we haven't had much alone time as she lives with her brother, and I've been visiting her there all the time recently as her mother has been ill in the hospital, and her parents are now also living with them... so her family is always around. She's all gung-ho and her family is all involved, and I just feel like I'm trapped on a runaway freight-train.
  4. I agree, I was just stating that this is a world-wide problem, and is relative to the wealth of the country. The richest person in America is many times richer than the richest person in Mexico, just as the poorest person in America is many times better off than the poorest person in Mexico. Because it is more visible in your country, you should be more inspired to try and do something about it.
  5. You had a great highschool experience... some people have terrible highschool experiences. Lets just say you were lucky Don't give up hope though, you just have to make new friends. It sounds like you had no trouble making friends in high school, so it should be just as easy in college. Just give it a bit of time.
  6. This gap... the division between the classes exists everywhere, it's just a little more disguised in first world countries. There are some on the "better" side of the gap who desire for things to be more fair. Unfortunately they are more the in minority the higher up the pyramid you go. I would encourage you, and those others who find themselves marginalized not only to work towards climbing the pyramid and bridging the gap, but as you climb to not forget what it was like to be where you are now, and to work towards making things more fair and equal for everyone. Every little bit helps.
  7. Take the advice of your signature. Love isn't something you can control... he obviously doesn't love you like you thought he did... and if you truly love him, you've going to have to let him go.
  8. Yes, but is the money he'll be getting significantly larger than what you'd be getting? I would imagine so as he was the one with the brain injury. It could be possible that he wants a divorce before the settlement so that he doesn't have to share it with you.
  9. Might want to hold off on the divorce until he gets his settlement.
  10. For one to truly understand, they need to experience it for themself. I would suggest doing the same thing back to her so that she can see how it feels. Next time you see a hot chick, do the exact same thing and see how she reacts. Only after this will you properly be able to convey to her how much you don't appreciate it.
  11. Is she able to orgasm through masturbation? If so, is she able to make herself climax with you in the room? If not, maybe that should be the first step. If she has never, ever had an orgasm, then perhaps she should attempt that first before you set the goal of an orgasm from oral stimulation.
  12. It is not uncommon for people who get married to start a completely new life, leaving old friends behind -- especially if they associate "unapproved" behavior with you, and especially once they have children. People who are married with kids tend to want to distance themselves a much as possible from anything that would tempt them to engage in "youthful indiscretions", or any possibility that their children would pick up on any of your past -- or her past for that matter. Parents tend to be very secretive about their "young and crazy" years in order to be "better" authority figures. My best advice to you would be to make new friends... because obviously your old friend has moved on with her life. Please note that I don't believe her behaviour is the best course of action... just that it would likely be futile to try and convince her to reconsider. I personally believe that parents should be more honest with their children -- once they are old enough to understand of course.
  13. You obviously didn't read what I wrote. I said legalized and regulated prostitution, as they have in the Netherlands (Amsterdam) as well as some other first world countries. Forced slave-labour prostitution is like comparing a child-labour sweat-shop to the modern work-place. A prostitute that services ten clients per day and practices safe sex every single time (no exchange of body fluids, no kissing, oral sex and penetration only involving condoms) is far less likely to contract or transmit an STD than a woman who sleeps with only five different men per year, but is more lax in her safe sex practises.
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