daisy

That is one of the cheesiest/most pathetic lines I ever heard. Yes, one guy told me that line once before. Guess what? He had a history of cheating on his girls. Don't fall for his lame excuse. If anyone wants to be with you, they would- scared or not.

Shysoul, I hope that you will NEVER change. You are rare, and you should be proud of that! There are guys out there like you, and I would like to personally thank you for being a mature & kind person that you are. Shysoul's smart. He's not out there to break girls' hearts. He's got much better things to do than that. There are plenty of things to worry about in this world other than, "Oh, women like bad boys." I for one, will never go for a bad boy, nor will I ever fall for a guy who personifies that bad boy attitude. Whoever wants to date a womanizer must be crazy. Besides that, I think its very oppressive for people to think that treating women like crap is the way to win her heart. That's terrible.

Thanks guys, for all of your responses!

If your partner considers you as his/her bestfriend, would it be okay for your significant other to have a best friend of the oppossite sex, in which he/she frequently keeps in touch with while in a relationship? Is it okay for your partner to have a bestfriend of the oppossite sex (outside of the relationship) in which he/she finds physically attractive? What if your partner denies having any romantic feelings for this person? Is he/she bs-ing?

Smartest thing you can ever do is to listen to yourself. Listen to what your heart says is right. You're not trying to get revenge. I think that every wife has the right to know if her husband is cheating on her. Any husbands would also want to know if their wife is cheating on him. Why should it be different in this case? No one wants to play 'the fool' when it comes to matters of the heart!

Chemistry in Relationships.: Is it instant or gradual? I know that this may be quite an ambiguous topic, but what are your experiences with chemistry and attraction? Were your BEST relationships based on initial, instant chemistry? Or was it based on gradual attraction? How do you know if you have strong chemistry with someone? If you do feel that deep connection, is it possible that two people have the same, mutual attraction for each other? Or is there always some kind of imbalance of attraction? How important is chemistry in relationships? Some people say that hard work and companionship in relationships are more important than chemistry. They argue that the reasons why marriages/relationships tend to fall apart these days is because people are constantly looking for chemistry. The reason why relationships don't work out is because people are too busy chasing after those feelings of passion. Would you agree? Other people also argue that hard work can make any relaitonships last, as evident through arranged marriages. What are your opinions on love and chemistry in relationships? To clarify what I mean by chemistry: Chemistry- Instant attraction (not just your superficial physical attraction, but mental and/or emotional). A deep bond that you feel, based upon your first meeting with that person. It's strong connection that you feel that words can't describe.