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I have a problem. Lately, I've been coming way to quickly. As you can imagine, thsi is quite annoying. Its strange because I used to have very good stamina. Any idea why the change, or what I can do?

i have this online friend, jessica. were good online friends and have been for a while. actually, theres always been something between us romantically. but anyways, jessica has been drinking alot lately, and its starting to worry me. i wanna get her to stop. what do i do? *edit* shes 16

first of all, thanks for the advice. no, me and carrie did not have sex or anything. weve kissed (without tongue). but how do i go about breaking it off so that ill hurt her the least. i really dont wanna hurt her. and heb, why dont u like the sound of the other girl? i want u to butt in. feel free to tell me these things. if i didnt want u ppl butting in, id have stayed off this site.

i have a problem. im a junior in high school. theres this girl, carrie. shes not allowed to date, but we like eachother, so weve been kinda carrying on. and shes CRAZY for me. i like her too, though not as much as she likes me. weve kissed already. then theres this other girl, amber. me and amber like eachother too. i like amber too, if anything a slight bit more then carrie. and shes allowed to date, and itd be easier. were probably gonna get together. what do i do about carrie. i dont wanna hurt her. whats the best thing to do. i need help and u ppl have always been here for me.

wow, nice poem

dont judge him just by the stereotypical hockyplayer. just ask, do YOU think hed be faithful regardless of occupation?

the best thing u can do is confront him and ask him wats up. it seems to me, though, that maybe his mom doesnt approve of u 2 dating maybe, and he just said that to save his butt. or maybe he planted it for u to find it... just some ideas.

hey people. its me again. i have this friend, jes. jes is a great girl, and we both really like eachother, like more then friends. the problem is, jes cuts herself. i think its bad enough that shes fainted from it before. how do i get her to stop? she says that she likes it, and that she tried to stop before but couldnt. im trying to get her to stop, how do i do it. shes not usually depressed, but her homelife sux. i do care about her alot

another thing abou "bullys" (and im not defending them here, i am a nice guy to boot) is that most of their violent behaviors stem from being emotionally insecure and their feelings are projected on others. they treat u like *beep* cuz they feel like *beep*. they usually go for the weakest stock. try maybe working out and wearing looser clothing to give a less weak apperence. and dont act afraid, but dont provoke them.

u cant really tell someone how to make out. yes, it does require tongue. but dont use so much tongue it chokes the other person. but really, making out is something that ur body will know how to do naturally, like running or eating. also, it usually helps, in my experience, to close ur eyes. good luck

now me, if i was told i was dremt about continually, id be a bit freaked. but thats just me, and different ppl respond differently. id lay off just a bit, but still flirt and see what happens. good luck

that is definitely a problem. maybe he should see a fertility doctor or something.

hey silverfox. welcome to enotalone.com its great that u have found a girl that you like so much, but i would be catious about throwing the "L" word around. but it does seem really close between you two. it seems that ur biggest problem is that her mom doesnt like you. maybe u should somehow try to have friendly conversations with her mom somehow, show her that ur not a jerk. as for being a better boyfriend, i cant really think of anything much to tell u but keep on doing what ur doing and try to get on her mom's good side.

sure, it is a good neutral way to start a conversation without seeming that ur coming on to her. go for it, and good luck

first of all, soulripper, welcome to enotalone.com. it is good that u have found that monster in u and tried to destroy it. it takes a brave man to even admit that he has these problems, and it takes an incredibly brave man to do something about it. You are a better man then u realize for having the strength to change. but in every relationship there is a point of no return, and once passed, ur *beep*ed. as much as i wish i could tell u that u will get back, i cant. but just because you two will probably not get back together, doesnt mean u cant be her friend. everyone needs friends. and it will help you out somewhere down the road that u can turn to her when u need it most. my advice, keep an eye out for another girl who has that magical effect on you. it may seem that u will never find a girl who had the same effect, you will find one eventually. trust me on this, as one repented guy to another. i know what its like. good luck, and if u ever need someone to talk to, messege me