I couldn't help but read your story! I just went through something very similar, except that I wanted to get married and have his brother move out of the basement and he decided to have some space cause I was pressuring him about his brother being a lazy ass. Anyway, he decided to see other people, I choose not to. He realized that he wanted me more than ever, took forever (2 months) for psycho (the immature 34 year old) to get the hint he wanted me. One thing I learned was blood is thicker than anything! Brother is still living with him being lazier than ever!! Sorry had to vent for a minute. What helped me through this was knowing my feelings for him. I knew that I was right. You are who you are and if she doesn't love you for you then, you might want to move on. Sorry to say it sucks, I am not considering after being back with him 7 months and no proposal yet from him, and him not doing anything to get his brother out, totally moving back to my apartment. You are doing the right thing, working out, and keeping busy, keep looking for a job to stay on your feet! If I learned on thing, love is wonderful and terrible at the same time. Just keep talking and being honest with her. When she is ready to talk sit down and try to work through things one thing at a time. Worked for me. If she does truly love you and care about you she will come around eventually. Hang in there!
