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hello my friends, i didn't talk to my ex for about a month an a half, because i just decided not to think about her, not to contact her because she has a new bf and i simply wanna move on with my life...well on frieday i was at my friends house where she lives, too and she just got out of her new. bf car and saw me there...i didn't look at her and i just walked away... a day later on saturday afternoon somebody called me from a blocked number and didn't say a word on the phone....the first time i picked up i just said hello who is it...the second time i tolled her not to call me and it is very stupid what she is doint...but the person on the other end didn't say a word....last night around 2am she called me again and i just couln't handle it any more i said that she should look for a doc and if her new bf. ist just so bad and she needs me back sorry it's to late and she shouln't bother my anymore because it's over and should seek doctors help... tonight around 11pm she called my again and again i said she should seek doctors advise and not call me anymore...she called me again and i din't want to pick up... the fact is to 99% i'm over the past rs but the problem is that such phone calls make me nervous and make my day/night bad...after them i can't do anything and i'm just crazy... i don't know why she is doing that...it has been for 6 months now...she has her new bf and i'm not contacting her anymore... thanks for you time, stillthere
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Love after long break...is it possible? help!
stillthere replied to FlipAngel84's topic in Getting Back Together
nicsie wrote something very, very important the word COMMUNICATION i was with a girl for about a year and two months and we never had a clear communication between each other we just didn't understand each other so it is very, very important to communicate as much as possible but try to do that without feelens i mean when you start touching each other kissing than communication gets the wrong direction i had a very messy break up, too with my girl it has been 6 months now, too and i don't know i have the feeling that we could get back together but she has a new bf and the bigger problem is i don't feel that she changed at all... stillthere -
my ex should take some time off....but she can't she is 19 but acts like 15 she needs to be in the "midpoint" the princess the cutie...that's how she always was...and that's why she is with the new guy she just needs some one but looks after me...well nothing i can do right now.... it takes time to go over some hurted feelings and to fix some broken bridges in my life somehting like this doesn't happy over night... but everytime we talked on the phone she tolled how she loves the new guy blah blah blah i have a feeling that she is fooling her self
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well i can't say i love her i can't say i don't there is something but the problem is that she hurted my feelings but there is still something thanks for your replay p.s yea her new guy is maybe the bigest "looser" if he doesn't know what's going on
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my and my ex didn't se eye to eye eather....now she is with a new guy but i heard that she is still having a hard time gonig over our beakup (and it has been 5 months now) my questions are: - how could she start a new rs right after (or maybe) before our breakup - she also tolled me that she is scared to continue with me because me might get into fights again - do you think she still loves me in a way (but she is with a new guy) thanks, stillthere
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Me and my ex girl broke up about 5 months ago (some of you know my story). She kept on calling me for a while and about a month ago we stoped talking to each other. I really just don't feel like talking to her….talking about my current life…if I have a girl…how my family is etc. I just don't feel talking to her about some stuff…to me it is hard to talkt to her and to know that she has a new one I also have the feeling that she was playing a little bit with my feelings. Last Friday I went out with a girl. Went went out for a coup of coffee and as god so will I was standing with that girl outside a café and trying to open the door and my ex with her new guy was in the café and trying to open the door, too and get out of the café with her friends. They let us in and everybody was looking at me. After my ex girl left a friend of her was still there…I said hi to her and asked her how she was doing. Frits question she had for me was "is it your new girl friend" I was smiling and said no no this is only a friend. In the last couple of days I was receiving coule of "blocked" calls. I can't say that all of them came from my ex but last night at 9:45pm ( I don't think that this call could be a business call because it's pretty late) I received again 3 blocked calls from someone….i picked the phone but the person on the other line was just quiet and didn't say a word…after the third call I turned of my cell. My problem is that I don't want to talk to her about everyday life like a said about –if I have a girl, how my family is, how my school is- if she wants to talk to me about something serious that would be fine. I also heard that she is having a hard time to go over the break up and to move on. But why does she have a hard time when she is with a new guy….shouldn't she be happy with him???? Thanks for your time, Still there
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will she come back???(cont.)3 week update
stillthere replied to TinaTakeMeBack's topic in Getting Back Together
she is only playing with your feelings my friend -
i don't know this lady but i have a feeling that she is keeping you "on hold" and playing a game....i mean having somebody else in background...i might be totally wrong, because i don't know the situation like you do...i'm telling you this out of my expirience take care, stillthere someday somewhere happiness will find you
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wow after 4 years that sounds just so sweet to me. i know you are probably "mega" happy right now but be careful ok as the friend before me said step by step...she might be totally different and you might still be in love but after a while maybe she will be the one who is running after you, because maybe you will realize that she isn't the right one for you so just step by step and enjoy every second you can spend with her... good luck 8)
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she shouldn't even see you...i realized when my ex didn't see my for a while she wanted to know where am i what am i doing do i have a new one... so go two steps back i know how it is but just try to do it day by day
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one thing my mom tolled me couple of weeks ago was: do not give everything to a girl right away....keep something for later, too. she ment you shouldn't open your heart right away and show her that you would do anything for her and would go crazy about her and and and....you should put something on the side for later... i think she was right and everytime i think about my ex i have to think about the words my mom tolled me, because i know what i have given to my ex....i am not saying she didn't give my anything back but hay i'll just try to cool off for a while....as someone said...she has her new boyfriend and the new rs....and if she calls me i'll tell her am very busy or i woudn't pick up at all.....i am wonderning what's gonna happen after a while when she doesn't see my at some places and doesn't her from me... take care guys, stillthere every situation is as unique as you are
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mind-games = a fakle world?? mind-games = faking something?? mind-games = paying back?? but again it depends who it is...how it is...why is it etc. what works with you doesn't have to work with me stillthere
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Absolutely true what you said my friend but it all depends how someone feels. I know my ex keeps on telling my "I am in a new rs you know that…I have a new boyfriend don't forget that" what ever I say or mention to go out for a cup of coffee or something she keeps on telling me that…I know she doesn't tell me that to let me know, because I already know that she does that just to make me feel bad. I decided since Saturday night not to call her any more and not to pick up the phone every time she calls me. On Saturday night a tolled her that I would like to see her and talk to her…she only tolled me well you know I am in a new rs now and I have to see and to talk to him and and and…I just said ok fine if we can't go out tomorrow and if I have to wait on your call than we don't have to go out…but now she is curious why I want to talk to her…she called me on Sunday but I didn't pick up the phone. If she calls me today I'll tell her that I am very busy and can't talk to her. I know mind games are extremely stupid but people trust me with some people you have to play those games. I really, really hate doing that but with some girls/boys there is no way out.
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The Ultimate Selfless Sacrifice
stillthere replied to BigMistake1607306452's topic in Getting Back Together
my friend i have a short question for you before i email you a personal message (right now i'm in a rush) do you really think it would work out between you gusy this time...because i had (i am going) trough the same situation right now and every time we tried it (about 3 times) it didn't work out.... take care stillthere i'll email you a pm and tell you my story so you can see what i mean.. -
Yes, I have to try to move on. Good thing is that she is going to Europe in few weeks...so I know she is away and maybe during that time i'll get over it. It is hard, because I am a very sensitive person...when I love someone I would give everything for that person well sometimes it's not the right thing to do. I'll try not to talk to her on the phone that often and try to shut down my cell i don't know...with one eye i'm happy to hear her voice but with the other i know it's not bringing any good... thank you for your support p.s a big thing is also that her and my family would never ever accept a rs between her and me anymore i think that would be the 3 world war