snyper313

Hey, i was in the same exact situation as you a few months ago. i was friends with this one girl i met at the beginning of the school year and i was really good friends with her. but the difference was, the first time i met her i knew that i wanted to be with her romantically. i waited 3 months to finally build up some guts to think of what to do to let her know. i wanted it to be the perfect moment too. well, over winter break i decided to let her know. my plan was to ask her out after we finished eating dinner at this nice restaurant i took her to. and at that moment when i was goin to tell her, i backed out. i was so mad at myself. but, after we ate and i backed out, we went back to my house. we were in my room and screwin around like we always did. you knwo like pillow fighting, me tickling her and just playing around. well, after all that we were both kind of tired and so we were both laying down on my bed. i started to caress her arms and massaging her back. and then she turned to face me and i knew that this was my chance. i just moved closer and looked at her and she knew what i was doing to. so she moved in too and we started making out on my bed. from then on, we hooked up! so i guess what im trying to tell you is that, dont let opportunities slip away, luckily mine went pretty good. but there is really no perfect time to tell her because the time in which you wait to tell her, something might happen to change the outcome. so like that greek saying, carpe diem. or seize the day, do it whenever you can. you dont even have to tell her anything. just by your actions she can tell, just like me. and it turned out perfect becasue i got to be with someone that ive gotten to know very well and that i really love.

Heres how it all started. It was the first day of college and we were waiting to go into our first class and while waiting in the hall, i saw this beautiful girl that i told myself i was gonna get to know better. So started talking to this girl and we eventually became good friends. The difference was, my intention was to be more than friends with her, and i dont know what she expected. But as winter break came around, i started going to her house and hanging out with her. She also came down to my house a few times too. But we didnt really do anything, i mean, we hung out like we would if she were one of my guy friends because i was afraid of ruining something good if i pushed too hard. Anyway, a week before break was over, she came down again, by this time, we were really close friends. So we were hanging out in my room and she was really tired so she laid down on my bed. I started to tickle her and stuff, just playing around. We both ended up on the bed and just resting. I started to caressign her arms and massaging her back and stuff and we ended up kissing for a while on my bed. At this point i was excited as all hell. We ended up being together but then school started up again. a week after school started, her stress level was raised again because of work and school and she told me that she was really stressed out and she feels really bad that she cant hang out with me like we used to during break. So she told me she just wanted to be friends for a while. This killed me when i heard it but i acted cool like it didnt effect me that much. Now, we are back to where we were just as friends, hanging out like we used to, but i still act like i did still trying to go after her. i want her back so bad. She still comes up to my dorm and hangs out, but it just seems different because i want to get back with her but i dont want to come on so fast because i dont know if she wants to get back or not. I really need help please!!!

Heres how it all started. It was the first day of college and we were waiting to go into our first class and while waiting in the hall, i saw this beautiful girl that i told myself i was gonna get to know better. So started talking to this girl and we eventually became good friends. The difference was, my intention was to be more than friends with her, and i dont know what she expected. But as winter break came around, i started going to her house and hanging out with her. She also came down to my house a few times too. But we didnt really do anything, i mean, we hung out like we would if she were one of my guy friends because i was afraid of ruining something good if i pushed too hard. Anyway, a week before break was over, she came down again, by this time, we were really close friends. So we were hanging out in my room and she was really tired so she laid down on my bed. I started to tickle her and stuff, just playing around. We both ended up on the bed and just resting. I started to caressign her arms and massaging her back and stuff and we ended up kissing for a while on my bed. At this point i was excited as all hell. We ended up being together but then school started up again. a week after school started, her stress level was raised again because of work and school and she told me that she was really stressed out and she feels really bad that she cant hang out with me like we used to during break. So she told me she just wanted to be friends for a while. This killed me when i heard it but i acted cool like it didnt effect me that much. Now, we are back to where we were just as friends, but i want her back so bad. She still comes up to my dorm and hangs out, but it just seems different because i want to get back with her but i dont want to come on so fast because i dont know if she wants to get back or not. I really need help please!!!