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  1. really???? I have never felt pain or frustration over a crush........if just messes with your head...but its fun though. Having a really strong crush is like being on drugs....its fun but it messes with your head.
  2. The best thing to listen to is your partner's heartbeat!!!!!!!! Put you ear close to her chest...not in the middle, but to her left slightly, and listen to her heart beat. That is the best sound to listen to.....
  3. Your poem covers an interesting subject, and I was very impressed that you made it rhyme so well!!!!!! Remember that most guys aren't players though. Most seek a long term relationship. It's just a few guys who go from girl to girl to girl, screwing them all up. Remember that players are the minority, but stayers are the majority. Humans are a dimorphic species, where a few guys get to sleep with the majority of the girls. Thats why there are such strong morals about not having sex until you are married. Its not so much a moral thing as it is a practical thing...its to protect the majority of girls from the minority of players, and also to ensure that the majority of guys (who are not players) get to sleep with a virgin..... Anyway, good poem!!!
  4. I disagree that being a teenager makes one screwed up. Thats just a sterotype. The fact is that the worst times are when you are two or three, because your genes "tell" you to act in antisocial way, but your parents want to teach you to act in a certain way. As you get older, you become more and more compliant to your parents and society's demands, and less influenced by your genes. Being a teenager can be a wonderful time. Make the most of it, because when you are old, you won't have the energy to many of the things you do when you were young. ANd also, what is wrong with crushes??? I have liked several girls who will never like me.....crushes are fun....
  5. The guy is the one who should be the assertive one. He needs to take a leadership role. If you are a guy, then you have to be the leader.
  6. There is no point in worrying that someone will break your heart if you know that you have chosen the right person (the original poster indicates that this guy is right)...I am friends with a girl like that. She won't let any guy get near her. She wonders why her heart is so lonely, and why she is depressed, but at the same time, she won't let any guy get close to her. She is even scared to kiss a guy...and I think that is an unhealthy attitude... Its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.....
  7. I want to know how many other people out there feel really scared sometimes when they are out at night. For me, tonight I was sitting next to an obvious gang member who was carving his gangs symbol into the bus window, and I was quite worried about this guy (he was carving his symbol with a knife). I usually am not too scared at night, but there are certain "bad" areas that I sometimes have to travel through, and they scare me...maybe scared is the wrong word...they concern me. My own area (where I live) is very safe, and I feel free to wonder out at any time, but in other areas, I really do feel concerned at night. Even though I am a guy, and I am tall, and really am very strong, I still feel concerned. SO I was wondering, do most other people feel this way? Or am I just worrying too much?
  8. I think that any guy who plays video games is immature, no matter what his age is. I have a question for boy-horse crazy: Do you ever expect to marry any of these older guys? IF you don't expect to marry them, then why are you dating them?
  9. Yes, but mumbling does not get anyone anywhere. If people come here to ask for advice for picking up girls, we should help them. But mere mumbling does not really do anyone any good.
  10. It's true that young girls like older guys, but there is a big difference between liking someone and loving someone. I believe that younger girls can like older guys, but its hard to imagine there is any love there because there is such a difference in life circumstance. There have been several times when girls, some as young as 13, have liked me (I am 22)...but could they really love me? Yes they chased me around, and told all thier friends how infactuated they were with me...but did they really love me? No!!!!! Love usually happens between people who are similar, including people who have similar ages.
  11. Remember that people change as they age, and are very different at different times of thier life. When they are young, it's true that most guys want to just sleep with girls, but as they age, they become more committed, and they seek more romantic relations. As guys age, most of them go from being "players" to being "nice guys." And most of them will end up married. Remember that being a player requires a lot more effort than being someone who is committed. This is because every single time the player guy meets a girl, he has to spend so much time and money on her...for the "nice guy" in a committed relationship, there is only a one time investment (though the romance should continue through out the marriage)
  12. All the people on this thread who are proclaiming themselves as "nice guys" should quit telling everyone how nice they are, and just go out and help people. If you are nice, then go out and help the Red Cross, or whatever charity that you like to help. Mumbling that girls ignore "nice guys" is a pointless discussion, and does not help anyone.
  13. YOu are probably just imagining that he likes you, just because you like him so much. There have been times I have liked girls, and I think that everything they do is a sign that they like me...when it isn't. The chances that he likes you are the same chances that I have of fulfilling my dream of marrying Pamela Anderon--It's not going to happen....
  14. I also once had a dream that I married Pamela Anderson, but I don't think that is going to happen any time soon.... Be cafeful about being inspired by something you dream about at night. Do your research...talk to counsellors in your school, and else where. Find people who are experts in writing, and find out if you really do have talent there...
  15. Strength also means never giving up, no matter how difficult the circumstances become. It means hoping aganist hope, and perservering forward, no matter the pain.
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