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Okay, basically from society's standpoint, here is what guys look for. Big Boobs Skinny Big Boobs Big Boobs Blonde Big Boobs Big Boobs Nice face Big Boobs Did I mention Big Boobs But basically that is what society looks at. However, I tend to not like the models in magazines, mostly because they are unrelistic. I like girls that are nice mostly, that just like to talk and hang out, but mostly because I'm an introvert, I like girls that are almost opposite of me. They would have to talk alot, because I'm not good at talking but I don't like dead space. Anyway, every guy is different, that is what makes people unique, but don't let society's view get you down, because it is unrelistic and frankly, not that attractive.

First of all, just because you have a job, it doesn't mean get away as fast as you can. Your parents were an important part of the last 20 years of your life, it is nice if they are an important part for the next 20 years of your life. Plus, it is very expensive living on your own, and living with your parents helps pay for expenses and allows you to save for college, and for a house, and mostly it can only help you get ahead. As to the distance, it is true that absense makes the heart fonder. Also, this is a point to prove if your relationship is more than just phyisical. A friend of mine and his girlfriend decided not to be that intimate anymore. He said that it makes him want it all the more. However, he sees hear as less of an object, and more of an idea. He said that he appriciates her much more than before. What I'm trying to say is, this will not last forever, so why not make the best of it.

I would suggest going to a hospital's ER, they have to help you, even if you don't have insurance (i'm assuming your in the US). They will help you there, and don't feel bad about yourself, one of my best friends was like you.

It sounds to me like you are depressed. Not to sound like a dick or anything, but you should consider seeing a doctor. One of the best things that a friend ever did for me was call the police when I told her that I wanted to commit suicide. I was brought to the hospital, and stayed in the mental ward for about a week. While I was there, I learned many things, such as how to deal with problems, that it is very important to think positively, and the greatest thing I learned was that I was not alone. I met some great people there, and although I didn't stay in touch, I still remember their friendship. Seriously, consider seeing a doctor, and never give up hope.

Nice guys may finish last, but At least they finish

I suggest taking up swiming, along with stretching. Swiming is useful because it resists ever movement, and will build up smaller sablizer muscels. Whatever you do, don't overdo it, but make sure that you keep it constant. (In other words, don't be like me and quit).

You should tell him, but it would help if you were to tell him that you would still want to be with him no matter what. Whatever you do, don't use it to crush him.

I went through the same thing about a year and a half ago. My girlfriend broke up with me, and it was like it was implied that we would get back together in a few weeks. The weeks turned into months, and it just kept dragging on. Then, two days ago, she told me she had a new boyfriend. That was perhaps the greatest pain I have ever felt. I tried to kill myself that day, but I couldn't do it. I don't know why. I called her, and she said that the pain will go away, yet I don't understand. How come I can't get over it, she had no problem. The worst part is that when we were going out, I came over to her house in the middle of the night and things happened. Now, she says that it means nothing, and it hurts, it meant something to me, it meant a lot.