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  1. It sounds to me like he is wants the relationship to be over between you two... He is breaking it off very gently without trying to hurt you too much. I know of a lot of people who break their relationships off just before summer, so they can have fun with any girl they want, or even meet someone at collage... Don't worry - my guy is nasty too - he broke it off with me and we have a 1 week old baby!!! I hope things can work out for the best for you. - nibs
  2. Right now I am 19 years old with a 2 week old baby. I love him to death and he has changed my life for the best. I was pregnant once before too, at the age of 15. That was a tough year. I realize that your parents are pissed-off, but does that give them the right to ground you and to (threaten to) make you never see your boyfriend again??? Just tell your parents that what is done is done. Being grounded isn't going to change the growing miracle inside of you! Tell them to please get over the mistake that you made, and to now help you out, since this is the path that you are wanting to take. If they accept what is happening and help/support you, then it will make your situation a 100% less stressful. Whatever you do, don't let them make you feel any less, and don't let them talk you into an abortion. This is YOUR choice, and not anyone else's, not even your baby's father. Just to let you know what I did when I was 15, I decided to have an abortion. At the time, it was the best thing going for me. Whatever your choice is, it will be the best. I hope you straighten your folks out, because if you decide to keep the baby, the last thing you need is stress!!! -nibs
  3. Last October my boyfriend got me pregnant. It was the happiest moment of my life. However, during the first 4 months of my pregnancy, I was the moodiest person alive. I snapped at everything that moved, expecially my boyfriend. We argued so much that sometimes the fights became physical, and that's when I moved out. I ended the relationship. Then, a few months later, I realized what I screwed up, and I wanted him back. I wanted to fix things and become a family. But by that time he was already over the breakup and was interested in dating other people. But since I wanted him so bad, I wiggled my way back in... sleeping over at his house, watching movies, cuddling, making love like we used to... Anything just to win him back. We slowly got back together, but he never did smile at me like he did way back when. I thought things were doing okay for the past 3 months. We'ed have a small argument once or twice a week but nothing major. Then, just last week he told me where to go and how to get there, and how he was sick of our fighting (even though we barely fought)... Then called me every name in the book (like he used to when we first started fighting before I moved out) It just hurts like hell because now I am 38 weeks pregnant, and I was SOOOO excited about becoming a new family with someone I re-fell inlove with. It hurts so much when you love someone, but they don't love you back. Why couldn't he have told me that he didn't want me anymore instead of sending me mixed messages. (Sleeping with me one moment, then pushing me away the next) Some friends in my life say he is just pushing me away because he's scared about the arrival of the baby, but even if it is that - I don't think he'll ever come back to me again. I can't seem to refrain myself to stop calling him, and everytime I do talk to him on the phone he is very short with me and usually ends up hanging up on me. On top of that I want to try to get over him, but how can I do that when after his child is born I'll HAVE to see him. I'm just a huge reck right now, and of course being pregnant makes me cry even more. Its okay if no one wants to reply to this message, I just needed to get this off my chest. Thank-you to everyone who took the time to listen... Nibs_
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