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  1. Oh! Cheers Lootie! Love your user name by the way! ☺️ Nothing sweeter than a close proximity potential romance! x
  2. Kim, you seem like a total sweetheart! x
  3. Adding a bit more Robert Greene in here for good measure: 🥲 x
  4. If this isn’t staged, my cockles are warmed 🤣🥰 x
  5. —- Bow to the target Blame Cupid, Cupid You think you're smart Stupid, stupid The sweetest melody Is an unheard refrain So lower your sights Yeah, but raise your aim, raise your aim —— - ‘Poison Arrow’, ABC x
  6. Dias, 500K won’t sustain me for one minute LMAO I had a glimmer of what if I could buy this building in town - shop on the ground floor and convert and rent out maybe two flats above it. It has this cobbled court yard that’s all run down. I kind of fell in love. I keep convincing myself I’m going to one day buy all this stuff as well. Quite pathetic and obsessive. Part of me is very materialistic, it’s one of my down falls. x
  7. —- Some expression in your eyes Overtook me by surprise Where was I How was I to know? How we can drive to a movie show When the music is here in my car? There's a band playing on the radio With a rhythm of rhyming guitars They're playing Oh yeah On the radio. And so it came to be our song And so on through all summer long Day and night drifting on into love. Driving you home from a movie show So in tune to the sounds in my car. There's a band playing on the radio It's some time since we said goodbye And now we lead our seperate lives. But where am I Where can I go? Driving alone to a movie show So I turn to the sounds in my car. There's a band playing on the radio And it's drowing the sound of my tears. They're playing Oh yeah On the radio. —— x
  8. Evening Kim! I’m British and I’d like to think we’re all pretty barmy and friendly for the most part here! But, we’re I think, safe to say, not European. Well, especially not now, technically 🤣 but we’ve always been our own tiny strange island doing our own thing! I get the cultural difference causing boundaries and difficulties because as a Brit, sometimes I find I’m lost in translation on ENA because this site is pretty much majority American and British culture is quite different. Be great to have an update! Being shy is really cute by the way! Nothing wrong with being shy, the only problem being shy is if it stops you doing what you want to do. As fellow Brit Morrissey put it: —- Shyness is nice, and Shyness can stop you From doing all the things in life You'd like to Shyness is nice, and Shyness can stop you From doing all the things in life You'd like to So, if there's something you'd like to try If there's something you'd like to try Ask me, I won't say no, how could I? Coyness is nice, and Coyness can stop you From saying all the things in Life you'd like to So, if there's something you'd like to try If there's something you'd like to try Ask me, I won't say no, how could I? Spending warm summer days indoors Writing frightening verse To a buck-toothed girl in Luxembourg Ask me, ask me, ask me Ask me, ask me, ask me Because if it's not love Then it's the bomb, the bomb, the bomb, the bomb The bomb, the bomb The bomb that will bring us together Nature is a language, can't you read? Nature is a language can't you read? So ask me, ask me, ask me Ask me, ask me, ask me Because if it's not love Then it's the bomb, the bomb, the bomb, the bomb The bomb, the bomb The bomb that will bring us together If it's not love Then it's the bomb Then it's the bomb That will bring us together So ask me, ask me, ask me Ask me, ask me, ask me Oh, la-la-la-la-la-la,-la-la! —— x
  9. Ah!!!! ALBERT CAMUS! What a poet and a genius and a philosopher! x
  10. Most of my Mums side of the family are from Norfolk! My Grandma still had a pretty strong Diss accent even at 96 years old, and she left when she was 17! Because of that, I find the accent really comforting! Also so many towns in the UK are twinned with European ones! New York is actually just; literally, the new version of York here in the UK, the original British capital, founded by the Vikings 🤣 as far as I know, watch me be corrected and get my uppance! x
  11. I mean, sorry to get into this again but I must note - quite alarmingly often, we have young men come on here every couple of weeks claiming to be so fed up, so lonely, and even suicidal sometimes, due to not being able to successfully date. They feel at odds with it all, to say the least. I am ashamed to say personally; I see responses to these men along the lines of “manosphere”, “incel” and also just brush them off as “trolling”. These are supposed young men with real and hurting grievances and they come here in my experience actually respectfully asking for insight, to get mocked; instantly brushed aside. Just gets labelled toxic straight away. I think it strikes a chord with me on a personally level because my thoughts regarding traditionalism have been brushed aside and labelled toxic too. Simply dismissed because it’s all seen as unsavoury and not politically correct. Just putting these observations out there. I think we are often quick to judge if something seems “extreme”. If it’s pitched as “let’s just all get along let’s love each other let’s make peace let’s look to understand” and many other platitudes, the applause comes thick and fast, but it is very easy to say all that, and give no actual or practical rules and advice on how to go about achieving it. To me, it’s like standing up and saying, “I want peace on earth” and everyone patting each other on the back. Of course we do, ideally - but this is the real world. I think it’s quite a fair comment to say that quite a big chunk of young men these days feel, for whatever reason, disenfranchised and left behind or, unseen, and part of that reason is people brushing it under the carpet and saying it’s bad don’t say that goodbye and block! x
  12. Dating well is taking educated risks; in a way. You can never be 100% sure on anyone. No one is ever 100% good, either. You have to be able to judge what is best for you and what is, sorry to parrot this, I am kind of saying this ironically but, what is “your truth”. You can only please yourself. You have to live your life for yourself, not to appease other people or subscribe to what should be done or you think is right or is now or is the “done” thing to do. I think those sites, they are there for a reason. The grievances have an undercurrent of truth. They aren’t all totally wrong. People get bitten a few times and it can turn some people very cynical and jaded very quickly. Not saying this is correct but, it’s just a fact. There have always been differences and grievances between the sexes. We are, after all, generally very different. That’s what makes the other side need the opposite team, in my opinion. Men can to some extent live without women, but would they really want too? And vice versa? We need each other to mutually exist. There will always be these fringe extremists for everything and anything. I don’t even think it should be damned. I think we can learn a lot from very different points of view, they are important. You have to choose well in a partner, realise your time on this planet is limited, realise you aren’t perfect and neither will be your partner. If you want something, form your own personal strategy to go put it into action and cross your fingers, your toes, your dating profile or whatever, and hope it works! x
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