I am very attracted to my trainer at the gym I go to. When I first met him, I was floored by how good looking he was but I told myself to keep it professional. So a few sessions in, I start getting the feeling that he might be attracted to me. I'll give you some of the signs:
1. He asks me personal questions (and I realized that trainers are supposed to ask you questions about your lifestyle) like about who I am attracted to. He gave me a list of stars he's attracted to.
2. He stares at me a lot, but I know this could also be because he's supposed to. It's just so hard to differentiate.
3. He winked at me at the end of two sessions.
4. He picked me as one of his clients to highlight on this accomplishment board in the gym. Basically, I had to write a testimonial about his training take a picture with him.
5. He tries to make me laugh.
At no point have I ever flirted with this guy. I've even been aloof in the way I act towards him. He seems very comfortable with talking with me. Sometimes I get so confused because I'll think he likes me, but then he'll talk to me as if I was one of the guys. He starts talking about how a girl in a music video is so good looking, and one time he even started talking about how this girl at the gym was so good looking and when I challenged him to go over and talk to her, he chickened out saying that he doesn't date women from the gym.
He is dating someone, but he made it a point to not call her his girlfriend. I think he just started. The thing is, I don't mind if he's dating other women, but I just want to know if you think this guy is into me?
I get the feeling sometimes he says things just to get reactions from me like when he talks about other women in front of me. I'm just so confused.