Don't be mad at him for not talking personall in front of his friends. Trust me, if he talked personall tyhen they would all pick on him and poke fun at him, and nobody likes that. Now the thing about the mall. I don't think you should worry aout it, that's my personall opinoion, and of course i wouldn't know all the details. If you notice him paying mopre attention to other goirls than you, then you need to talk. Guys like to look around and compare to their current girlfriend(I do at least. Most of the time it compliments you, something like Wow she looks like an airhead, not like my girl. Or Shes pretty good looking, but i wouldn't trade my g/f for the world. He loves you, and you love him. he just doesn't want to say it because he's afraid of being hurt. He'll open up soon enough. Good luck... g2g