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Basically I met this girl and we've hung out a few times but shes challenging me to find some unique way to put my arm around her when were watching a movie or something. Like, put your arm behind her and say whats that (pointing in the direction of her far shoulder), she turns and you rest your arm on her shoulder. Thats hers though so its not exactly unique. So does anybody have anything at all, cheesy or good it doesnt matter. Well theyre all cheesy. thanks

it was her idea, but i think its the dumbest thing. If every relationship ended when the first problem arose, how would there be any relationships?

I doubt shes testing me, we broke up.

Shes 16. Im 16. If there is a feeling such as love, I wouldn't know it, but I do know that I would rather not be with anyone else at this point. I dont want to dominate her, I dont want to get action so I can brag about it to my friends. Well now were on a "break" whatever that means, and I have been crying on my floor for the past half hour. I know the lecture, "oh youre just a kid dont worry more girls will come around blah blah blah" girls like this dont just come around for me. And if the coach would let me, Id gladly play tennis with her.

Ive been dating this girl for a little over a month, and I sacrificed a lot to just be able to ask her out. When I say sacrifice I mean cut things off with some girls who had a thing for me. So my girlfriend and I had a good first month, but then this whole time thing came in. She has tennis all day while I basically sit around. We had a talk last thursday how shes not going to have a lot of time for hanging, and I was fine with that, but I asked that if she did have an evening, a few hours, anything that she would call me. So the next day she comes over for lunch and everything seems alright. That was the last time I saw her. She called me a few times, I tried to get a date with her during the weekend, but her "girls" came up a few times. Her girls is something I had a problem with when I was trying to date her friend. Ive come to the conclusion that they aren't lesbians, they just watch the same (dumb) movie every night and talk gossip and crap just like they do when they are online or on the phone. Basically I feel like Im keeping my schedule open, trying to make a date, an appearance, something while she goes off with her "girls." For the third night in a row I sat around since all my other friends have evening/night jobs and shes got girl things. But then its not just the girls, last night she had a family thing during the day, and some church thing during the evening, but then she goes to a get together with 4 of my friends (who I introduced to her) and she or any of them invite me over. Am I just wasting my time? Did I spend the last 6 months winning her over for nothing? Every girl Ive dated said I was the perfect boyfriend, I did everything right, cept for the whole I didnt want to date them anymore thing. And all of those girls gave me atleast 3-4 days a week, just a few hours, if not even a whole hour to just sit down and talk. I dont want to lose this girl because she is a joy to be around, and I have never felt this way before about a girl Ive dated. She lightens everyone spirits, and many guys have come up to me and said "you're one lucky sob." What am I doing here?

She came over a few hours after I posted for some lunch. After we ate, I had a little box of chocolates sitting in my room that I was going to give her yesterday but never happened. So she got the chocolates, and we just sat down for a bit and talked. We just decided to try our hardest to keep going no matter what happens (thank god), and we just started watching some tv, but pretty soon we werent watching tv, so I think Im good. We'll see in a few weeks when school and sports heat up and we wont have as much time together. Thanks!

I met this girl back in march and we were just pals. Then we started hanging more and more, and we had a conflict where it ended in us not wanting to continue on. A few months later, we start talking again and things start to heat up a bit. At this same time I was hanging with another girl who I met at a party. So basically there were two great girls but I had to end things with one, since both of them were expecting a bit more than just friends. So I cut things off with the party girl and spent all my time with the first girl. We started dating, and she went on vacations for two weeks of the first month. Then after her most recent comeback problems really arose. While she was away, I went to a party and and one point I said "Sarahs out of town, I can do what I want. Im kidding." Some of the girls at the party told sarah that I said "Sarahs out of town I can do what I want." What they forgot to tell her was that I was kidding and when I said it, one of my buddies was sitting on me so we had one of our "gay moments" where we make everyone in the room laugh. So when I first saw her, she was hanging around a few of my friends and one guy I never met named Kevin. Kevin was obviously all over Sarah, flirting, touching, the works. I admit I got jealous and a bit mad. Then later as Im driving Sarah home, she pulls out this paper with some conversations on it, concerning the whole "I do what I want." I told her that the quote was taken out of context. She didn't believe me. So the next night shes having a "girls night" and Im fine with that, I was having a bonfire. But behold kevin shows up and she come up to my house in kevins car. Next night, shes having another girls night, and later I show up and guess whos there? Kevin. At this point Im really getting annoyed because shes spending more time with this kevin guy. Then yesterday I was driving her home and she brings up that her lifes becoming hectic at home with tennis, and school, and her family, and she doesnt think I would enjoy still dating her. I told her I want this to work, because something happened when we first started out that made me really enjoy being with her, but we just never talk anymore. So, I need some way to show her Im for real, that Im worth it. And I have no idea what I would say to her. Please help, I dont want to lose this girl.

I've liked this girl for a long time, no "liked" is an understatement, I was hoping she was the one to call my cell every time it rang, thats accurate. Right now I think that I actually have a chance because of how she talks and looks at me. But the problem is that I have two friends who I "fool around with," one of which is probably hoping for more than just a "friend with benefit" in the next couple weeks or so. My question is, should I risk fun physicalness with a few girls for a girl I've wanted to be closer to for a while?

a compliment some girls like are their earings. Its the little things you can notice that can make the biggest difference. If they wear those one stone earrings you cant really compliment them, but if its elaborate or unique, its a green light. Another thing that might help is a sense of style and colors, so you can say wow those earring really match you top, and you also coordinated it in with you shoes, and purse. Well not like that, but knowing what colors work has paid off for me. remember its the little things

yeah as we talked she would be looking straight in my eyes, but someone else said that was just being polite. And we resolved this today, we decided to stay as friends, since we enjoy talking so much, and just let it be the past.

Mk this goes back to about a month ago. My best friend Erik takes this girl Laura to a dance. Im into this other girl that im taking, but things feel apart after the dance between me and her, just like what happened to Erik and Laura, but instead of Laura talking to him, she just ignored him and avoided him. Erik was really into Laura, and it really crushed him. So I talked to Laura about it, and Laura talked to him and stuff, and Erik was still into her. The hardest part is that Laura is gorgeous. And he just didnt want to let her go. But eventually he says to me Yeah Im over her completely. That weekend, I was talking to laura, and she and her friend wanted to go do something but laura didnt have a car, so i drove them around, and we went to Caribou for like 3 hours. Now what surprised me there was that I never thought girls like these would A.) want to hang with me B.) talk to me for 3 hours. Ive had some talks with people, mainly about 4 other people than erik, for 3 and more hours, and we can talk about anything we want, without any discomfort. Erik and I feel that girls like that are extremely good in our books. So that really hit me, I just talked with a gorgeous girl for a long time about everything. And it hit her too, she thought of me as some perverted boy that goes to school with her, just like everyother boy shes ever met, but people said that she was surprised that night, and she saw a totally different side of me. So we started talking more, saying hi in the halls, making our way around school so we could talk for even a minute. Then I went to NYC this past weekend and I got back last night, and I talked to her and she said i could come over and give her the stuff i bought for her in nyc. We ended up talking for about an hour about our weekend, and then about everything else. So I needed to stop by Eriks before it got too late, so we hugged, then I went to my car, and she said something, so i go back and talk with her for another 5 minutes, and I waved to her when i was standing next to her, and then i was like, that was a weak goodbye, and she said something that just sealed it "what do you want from me?" Now that for me insured her saying "come here." so I said "this" and i kissed her. Looked at her, turned and walked away. I thought I had just scored. WRONG Her friend said that was a bad move, and she thought of me as a friend and she was into someone else. Right then, I nearly yelled out loud, but I kept it under. The problem is that Erik and I had this whole argument how I should have told him i was into Laura, for the whole week, and we yelled at eachother today, since i didnt tell him i went to lauras before i went to his house, me saying hes not my mother. But this whole argument could have been avoided for good. What I dont understand, is how laura led me on, when she thought she didnt. Whenever we talked, she would smile and giggle, laugh, compliment me, and look me square in the eye, like there was nothing or no one else around. And so now Im just thinking, god damn, if i hadnt moved in i would be so happy but no. Like I was thinking about her the whole time i was in NYC, and I had such high hopes that this was going to work, but no. I need to know what i did wrong with the signs thing, and dont give me crap about going for my best friends crush, I knew what i was getting into, kinda.

if your just going to pout around, just be friends with her then. Meet someone else, who you could ask out, and you can talk to your friend about relationships, and maybe she will warm up to you

if you want to overcome this fear, face it. Youll have your ups and downs, but overall, take a chance at it. Make sure the girl likes you in the same sense you do, for a legit chance. If she says yes, great for her and you. But if she turns you down, thats her own problem. Shes dumb enough to pass a chance on something. Theres other fish in the sea.

Theres this girl, Lisa, who is this gorgeous girl. She plays hockey and soccer. And she is the most amazingly beautiful girl ever! But I have never talked to her. She didnt know that i existed until i talked to her on link removed and aim. I didnt have any classes with her or ever saw her anywhere. I have many friends that tell me shes gorgeous and stuff. They also tell me shes very picky about the guy shes dates. Like she turned down a couple football players, and a guy who i would have screwed in a minute (dont worry, im not gay). Other than that, I think shes just perfect. Her friends know that Im interested in her, and they said they would put in a word for me. The problem is that I hate flirting and chatting with a girl im interested in online. It seems like everyday she already has something planned. And when she doesnt, I have something goin on. I know that if I could just get her to look at me and talk to me in person..yeah. I just dont know how to approach a girl ive never talked to in person. Please Help!

prove it to them. If you want to eat less than eat less, if you want to go for a jog, go jogging. You dont need to be limited to what your parents think of you. Believe in yourself. Once you do that, they will respect you and garuntee you they will