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It gets so much better Fuhman! While I can't tell you whether or not your ex-girlfriend will come back, everyone here going through what you're going through can guarantee that it does get better. It will take TIME, but when you realize how much you have going for you, you start to see the opportunities and blessings around you, and its the greatest feeling in the world! I honestly believe, being dumpees, we eventually realize we're in a much better position because we learn from our mistakes. Whether we can say for the dumper, I'm not sure. But just remember that when you start looking past her and into your own life, the blessings will come, and you will come out a much better, stronger person. I've read a lot of "they always come back" here on enotalone, and I can't say how true that is, but you realize over time that you deserve so much better than what your ex did to you, and either way and if she doesn't come back, you will find someone better. That is a fact! On topic: I had a guardian in my life who died recently. When I was struggling with my break up, he told me about his first wife. They broke up and weren't in contact for 8 months to a year. Eventually they got back together and got married, till his wife died about a year later. So yes reconciliations happen! Just be open to anything to happen, and your life will be amazing!