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next friday nite junp him when he least expects it.....hes a guy and he wont be able to resist....if not you are getting to close to the friends forever mode.jump him.....

neo,,,my ex does it all of the time.and any time i respond she says "leave me alone"its a mindf##k

thats a tough one?maybe she wanted to be sure about her feelings for you,and her feelings for him.but either way,if the day they had together was good,she would be with him right now.thats very selfish.did she discuss as to why she specificly wanted to go 'explore'i like that,explore her feelings with him?did they have sex?the thing to remember is that she probably doesnt love anybody,and once again if they had a good day that day she wouoldnt be with you.and i doubt that she would give you an explanation,let alone say goodbye to your face....its your call?

i started all of this and i am responsible for the break up,i treated her like *beep* while we were together..my drinking etc,and my harsh words and attemted infedflity.

for those that have been following my dilemma,my gf broke up with me just before new years eve.and within days she was in a sexual relationship with another man..well atleast he thinks he is...anyways,i went and had some affairs of my own,and after 2 months of seperation we have satrted seeing each other again,but not like we were before.we had sex once and she was apologetic and understanding and said that the affair ment nothing to her and that she was just trying to forget about me,etc etc.after sex she turned totally cold toward me once again,and we were back to square one.we started to reconsile again,and friday she was totally back on (censored)mode.she saw a picture of a girl that was interested in me from yahoo personals,she didnt show it but it angered her,she went out friday nite and stayed out until 5 am.she said she had a new client (shes a theraputic massuse),and that he was a rich musican with a big house etc etc..(im a musican)and she made it a point...sat nite i spent with her..she made it a point to tell me about this guy and she ended up having sex with him,and that she wasnt going to have sex with me because i disgust her and im ugly all of the sudden,and bla bla bla.i dont know what her problem is?im getting the feeling that she made this guy up or made it more then it was,because she was upset about seeing the picture of that girl.she loves me,but shes being so misleading,and everytime i dont contact her for a few days she starts calling me and being nice like everything is cool...i love her and dont undferstand what it is shes going through..any suggestions?

where r u from?

ugh

ive never been able to go from loving somebody to just deciding one day that i dont anymore and go jump into another relationship with someone els.its happening to me right now with the woman i love.she still loves me but shes doing everything she can to forget me but she wont totally let go...it sucks !!!!!

they are never going to tell us why because if they did they would lose the upper hand....obviously,we have done somthing to hurt them badley,and this is their way of 1,being through with us and being totally cruel to go with it,,,,2,testing us to see how far we will pursue them,,3,,they have another man,and are keeping us on the back burner just in case it doesnt work out with him.only they have the answer...i guess the best defense is to not ask any questions at all as to why they are doing what they are doing,and not feeding into their game.....chicks???

but expect no answers to your questions.she would lose the upper hand if she told you.

sadly nice guys finish last.

riught on

my gf wont answer any of the questions i need to know so i can move on with some closure and piece of mind.i love her and am sorry for what i did,but i hate her for the mindf##k shes put me through for the past 3 months...ladies,,,its very childish and plain sadistic to put somebody through that kind of pain and frustration just to boost your own ego.it plain sucks!and for those of you that play this little game (guys too)you can expect a date with karma thats going to be nothing nice!!!!

i am still trying to deal with being dumped 2 months ago,if she ever gives you the real reasons i hope it helps...

right on brother!