sti555
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Seperated 4 years with children. How do I get my family back
sti555 replied to chay's topic in Getting Back Together
ok first things first, can you give more details on what went wrong, let us know what you have done so far to correct things and make steps in the right direction for your goal!. We need a more info!, stay positive -
I really think she is in a mess at the moment, mentally and emotionally... If you care and love her, try and be there to support her, she must still be interested, just very mixed up and confused. Take a breath, answer the phone, it dos'nt matter if you don't understand, just be prepared to listen! Good Luck!
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I would suggest no contact for the moment, give yourself time to think and gather your thoughts and emotions.. Read this thread link removed If you are in a rush read the first post by myjoy and my post today on the last page, when you get a little more time have a read of the whole lot!, there are many people in similar circumstances to you at the moment, me included! Try and stay positive Good Luck!
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I would advise you to cool things off a bit, give her space and time, get into doing other things to take the pressure off, but stay in touch.. If/When she is ready she will make the moves, stop chasing so much and see what happens, a little break may do you both some good and giuve each time to think! Perhaps she is just not ready to commit for whatever reason, don't ask so many questions, concentrate on making her feel comfortable and have fun, keep working on just a friendship.. Good Luck!
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My advise would be not too look at your friend with rose tinted specticles!.. I would suggest forgetting about her and working on your marriage, thats what your made your vows for, it may not be easy, it may not work, but least your tried.. I really dont think the rebound relationship from the 2 of you would work.. perhaps she is best left as a friend!, remove your temptation and focus on your marriage and kids etc. Good Luck!
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my advise is to do the right thing and leave it.. Once the angy has passed you will regret your actions, by this time it will be too late!. Dont burn your bridges you will never know what can happen in the future....... Although you have been treated badly, I really dont think it will make you feel better and more importantly benefit anybody!.. Big no no! Good Luck!
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I think in the grand scale of things over a 5 year relationship a couple of weeks really is'nt long enough without contact.. She is probably trying to deal with things herself, remember this is not easy for her either, I would expect her to be confused...... She needs the chance to make mistakes and learn from them and the chance to distance herself from you, it's all about giving her time to think and work out her own feelings She needs more time and so do you, try and focus on what you have in your life not what you have lost... Have a look at my post here for more tips.. link removed Good luck!