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hey f he cant realise whats right infront of him and do something about it then its his loss!! but he does sound confused and he is obviously interested in you if you keep catching him looking at you. why dont you just text him or something and tell him how you feel and see what he says and then if he says hes not interested then move on hes not worth it, good luck! x

hey im sad to i just broke up with my boyfriend. its hard. i know exactly how your feeling x

Hi i have this problem where im always attracted to the bad guys, and i tend to end up being treated like dirt and getting hurt but then i like a bad lad cause i think there exciting and i just am attracted to them i cant help it! Anyway i have met this bloke and he is really really shy, but very sweet which i am not at all used to. I just cant seem to connect with him but i know he is a nice guy but i just dont feel attracted to him cause he hasnt got a bad lads edge to him. i do like him but i just cant help but find him a lil weak and a bit perfectic, my image of a bloke is to be strong and confident. but dont get me wrong hes lovely and nice but i just cant help feeling like this, i know it sounds horrible. Im just wondering if people think if i give him a chance then he might come out of his shell a bit and then i might find him a bit more exciting?? do you think iv just got to give him a chance?? xx x x x x

aww i remember when it was my first kiss i was absolutely petrified about it!! she will do it in her own time dont worry, after she has done it she will wonder what ever she was worried about!! just make her feel as comfortable as possible as she will kiss ya in no time! Im sure she is just worried that she will be really bad and think you would finish with her over it or something! just make her feel relaxed and just wait till she feels comfortable! maybe she could start thinking about just kissing her??? she might be too scared to make the first move?? once you start kissing her she might realise its not so bad!? hope that helps x

thanks guys i will keep ya updated, you have helped me alot! x

I really dont know whether i am wasting my time or not about this bloke i like. I have recently but not too recently came out of a relationship with a bloke who treated me like dirt anyway there is this knew bloke that i like so i got his number and i texted him and told him i liked him. I knew he was going out with this girl but i had heard that they had broken up awhile ago but when he text me back he told me that he was still with his girlfriend and that he was happy, fair enough i thought, but iv also heard that she has cheated on him by a friend of hers and that she isnt faithfull to him but he doesnt know ( and im not gonna tell him!) Anyway awhile ago we was just texting eachother and he sounded like he was really interested which made me really happy as i do kind of like him alot. Any way i didnt hear from him for awhile which is fair enough and then he text me saying he didnt want us to text for awhile because he loves his girlfriend too much, but sorry some of the thingd he was saying to me in the messages i really dont think his girlfriend would want to read them!! He said he will get in contact with me when they break up and he has also said that he likes me but doesnt want to lose his current girlfriend which i do understand. I just want to know if you think he is worth waiting for cause we do sound like we have a lot in common etc but that is just over messages. i do like him a lot and i dont want to give up on him just because of his g/f that cheats on him! but i am willing to leave him alone if he wants. But he still texts me every now and again so he is really confusing me!!!! I dont really want to talk to my friends about as i know what they think and i know they are right he has a girlfriend so i should leave him to it but i cant help it! i dont know what to do. please help sorry if i have gone on alot. please help. x

hi im not sure why you refer to killing your self as an adrenaline rush??? Do you enjoy the thought of killing yourself!?? I am here to listen, you can send me a private message or just post a reply back to me. why do you want to kill yourself? x

hi i completely understand your worry for your friend, but she has been so good she probably just want to release a little of her bad side. It will pass dont worry. No offense but i wouldnt really worry anyway as long as she is using protection and knows the people fairly well then i really dont see the problem with having a regular sexual experience with blokes. sex is a wicked thing, its like you said everywhere, and its getting worse and more and more people are doing it. thats life, no point in avoiding it, i think you need to go out and have some fun while your still young. if your friend is happy, leave her to it, if it gets serious then scream at her and tel her how you feel. Dont lecture her tho because that will push your friend further away! sex is great.

hey people,id jus like to say i created this post and to be honest i dont see why i bothered, thank you to the people who agree with me but ive noticed i havent had one person ask me for help. so why post all your suicuide notes and expect people to read them and feel sorry for you when your not even willing to try to talk your problems through. i am still here if anyone needs to talk. x

Hey aww i know how you are feeling and i really feel for you, life can be so creul sometimes cant it. I know it may not seem like it but it will get easier, when i felt heart broken i actually felt like a pain in my heart and i never knew that was possible. I cried for a week and i didnt eat but then i stopped and took a long good look at myself. You can do a lot better than him sweetie he is not worth your tears at all!! my first ever boyfriend was exactly the same how you just described yours he made me feel like a princess! and then he just finished with me a couple of days after my bday after he had bought me loads of expensive gifts. no bloke is worth all this pain! you sound like a lovely girl and you can do so much better than him!!! you just got to be strong, you can do it!!! I am not over my ex at all but the pain isnt there anymore. I think you should do everything to try to make yourself happy: go out with your mates etc. You deserve so much better than him and you will find it. dont waste any more tears on that jerk!!!! Please dont cry anymore and you can talk to me anytime. be strong you can do it, take care x

I completely agree with the last persons comment!! I have been in the same position as you are now. TRUST ME THIS BLOKE IS NOT WORTH IT. you can do so much better than him. He doesnt realise what is right infront of him, its his loss. Dont ever let a bloke get you down like this girl they are never worth it!! he sleeps around you dont want a bloke like that anyway. you can do so so so so much better for yourself AND YOU WILL. You sound like a lovely girl that deserves someone so much nicer, my opinion he isnt a man he is a insensitive, blind rat. he will end up a lonely old man. Be strong. and no bloke like to be chased so dont show him how much you love him, please dont sleep with him again, it is so wrong and all it is doing is hurting you. dont do it to yourself. HAve confidence and faith in yourself to move on and forget that lowlife piece of scum! you can do it girl!!!! take care x x x x

Hey I completely understand what your going through, but trust me it does get easier. Just think of it like its her loss not yours!! You will find somebody else that is much nicer. feeling angry towards her is good that means you are on your way, keep thinkin how much she has hurt you, you dont need her. She isnt worth it all trust me, anyone that cause you this much pain is never worth it. Never show her she is getting to you how ever hard it is and show her what she has lost! you can do it! be strong, You will find someone who will make you really happy soon. hope that helped. x

Hey it sounds like you have had a really tough time handling the break up of your ex, but my opinion you sound like a really nice guy and your ex doesnt know what she has lost and there are not many guys like you out there. I know the feelin when you see an ex that you still really care about it hurts more than anything, but you have come this far and you are strong, you dont need her to be happy! its her loss!! Think of it like it has made you stronger. I broke up wiv one of my ex's about 7 months ago and nothing will stop me thinkin how special he was and how much i miss him, but at the end of the day it wasn't ment to be im not going to keep messing my life up just because of him. If your mates are true friends they will completely understand where you are coming from, they should meet you and your ex at separate times i think that would be for the best. If you do happen to see your ex just think about what she has lost and act really happy and dont show she is getting to you, you will find someone else and you will wonder why you wasted so much time over someone who wasnt worth it. And she isnt worth it you CAN do better and you will when the time is right. Be strong and keep your chin up!! hope that helped abit. good luck x

Hey i have just read alot of these posts about how unhappy people are, it is horrible to read things like that, a friend of mine just hung himself and i would be more than welcome to talk to anyone who feels like they need to talk! Please dont do anything stupid any of you!! Think of the people you will leave behind, what ever it is im sure you will get through it just keep your chin up!! You can all get through your problems you just need faith in yourselves!! im here if anyone wants to talk!! take care x xx

hey there thank you for your reply, but i only just read it. i saw him saturday and i stupidly stayed at his house and slept with him again because i just wanted to be close to him one last time and your completely right it has messed my head up again and my heart. He has moved away today so basically its completely over now anyway. i know that i can do so much better than him. Like you said i really need to concentrate on making myself happy before i look for another bloke but thats the thing im not happy in myself and feel i need to find another bloke to get over the last one and make my self happy again for a while anyway. thank you x