GaryNas

I was in your position, and this was only after a year and a half of going out. You have to accept the fact that you said what you said... no matter what she did. Make sure she knows that you're not proud of what you did. My girlfriend came back to me and I treated her like gold. The only problem is we're on a hiatus now because she thinks I treat her too good. Strange... Anyway, the point is, let her know that you take full blame for your actions. If you really believe that you've changed, so will she. Girls like to take time though. This probably doesn't help, but I've been in that situation and thankfully came out of it successfully.

I've been going out with my girlfriend for 5 years now. Yesterday she said that she has to be alone for a while to see what kind of person she really is and wants to find out what she likes doing. She said that we've always done everything together and she has no hobbies. She also said that she takes me for granted and that's something she doesn't want to do. She said I give her everything and never say no to her. She then mentioned that she treats me like crap sometimes and feels bad about it. With that said, she made it a point to say she's not ending the relationship. She said the simple fact is that she wants to marry me, but in order to do this she has to find the person she really is. She's 22 (I'm 23) now, and said she didn't want to be middle age and not really know herself. When I asked if this meant she wanted to see other people, she said absolutely not. She also said that we'll go on 'dates' and she wants me to call and email her. Does this make any sense? I'm really confused and hurt by the whole situation.