Tiger

If you've read my post before about the guy I've been dating, you'll get the idea of this post. To sum it up at little for those who haven't, I've been with this guy for two and a half years, and we had a lot of problems. We took a couple of days off from each other and things have been great so far. There haven't been any problems with us or with anything else. A few days ago he hurt his back pretty bad, so I've been staying with him to help him out. Now the problem.....I had a huge fight with my mother and just needed to vent and I assumed he would let me. I wasn't looking for answers from him, just a little support and he couldn't handle it. Now he's giving me the cold shoulder and avoiding talking to me as much as possible. I don't know what his deal is. It has nothing to do with him and myself, so why is he acting like this? Any advice?

Just wondering how everything was going..hope all is well

I understand your situation all too well. I was in it when I was 16 and I did abort it. It was and still is very hard to think about and I do all the time, but going to my mother was the best thing for me. She was very upset, but she helped. To tell you the truth, it was a good decision..the guy I would have had it with was an arrogant loser and only cared about himself, and I have my whole future....I thought at the time I could handle the responsibility, but now I realize I couldn't...I couldn't even take care of myself, never mind a baby. Now don't get me wrong, I know in my head that it was the right decision for me, but it still hurts. The questions of what if I had kept it and how would my life be now still ring through my head, but I have a good life now. You are only 14 years old. You have so much ahead of you. Make a decsion best for YOU. Send me messages anytime if you need help or have any questions

I have recently gained a lot of weight...Does anyone know good suggetions of losing weight that isn't too stressful....I have access to a really good gym, but can't get past eating a lot of crap foods in large amounts...I think it has a lot to do with the amount of stress in my life and it's kind of a way to feel better, but now it's just making me feel worse and more self conscious than before...please help

Now I'm not really one to give advice as I need as much as I can get, but here's my thoughts....Why not try talking to her? Ask her if maybe she could show you around seeing as you are new to the area. If she doesn't want to, it may sting a little, but at least you tried. You have nothing to lose, so give it a shot. At least then you will know not to bother trying with her and you can find someone else. You'll never know what she's thinking unless you ask her...Good luck!

I found out by listening to my boyfriend's messages on his answering machine that he is lying to me. He told me about a party we could have gone to, but he decided he didn't want to go and wanted to stay in. After listening to his machine, I found that his ex-wife called him to remind him of the party that was that night. Mind you, he told me his friend we will call Chris was having it, but come to find out his ex-wifes best friend was having the party. When I confronted him, he said his friend who is also a friend of his ex was having it and she was reminding him. The part that gets me is that he told me he only talks to her when it is involving their kids, so why did she call him? Why would he lie? Does this mean he's seeing her again? I have a gut feeling that he is, but I don't know what to think.

I am in love with a man who I have been with for 2 1/2 years, but I know he doesn't feel the same anymore. He has 2 kids and is in the process of getting divorced (still) I started dating him when he was still living with his wife and kids. He has since left, and we were ok. He used to call all the time and compliment me all the time, now he doesn't care if he sees or talks to me at all....We argue a lot and I have my share of horrible things that I say, but he goes right to the core of things and it hurts. I recently tried to fix things between the two of us again and we went away for the weekend, but as soon as we got back it was the same routine again. He never shows up and if he does, he's very late, and he barely calls me anymore. Still, I can't leave as much as I know I should. I put 98% into this relationship and hardly get anything back but it's so hard to walk away Please help me out with some advice