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  1. Last night Ian and I had sex for the first time since the baby was born. I actually thought it was going to hurt but I was shocked out of my mind. It was the best sex I've ever had! It seems like the pleasure was 50% more intense than it was before. I don't go back to the doctors for 2 weeks and I was just wondering if anyone knows anything about this. It seems really weird to me but hey, I'm not complaining
  2. Everything is going great. Ian is doing great, the doctor said it was unusual for a baby to sleep through the night at only a month old but he's fine. He weighs 10 lbs and 13 ounces now and is still the same height. I'm pretty much back to normal finally. I still get tired easily but I have my strength back now. I'm slowly starting to lift weights again to gain more strength back so that is helping a lot. We've still been looking for a house and we think we found one. We have to wait another 2 weeks to make sure that the people that live there now aren't going to sign for another year and if they don't, it's ours. It's 600 dollars a month, electric and water included. It's a great price for a 3 bedroom house, 1 and a half baths, full living room, kitchen, and basement. The house is only a block from my sister's house and 3 blocks from my house so it's easy for us to get to both of their houses when we get it. I get my license on December 11th so it'll be even easier on us having two cars. It's still hard to believe that I'm a mommy to a beautiful baby boy and married to the man I love. Times have changed so much but I'd never trade what I have for anything. It's an amazing feeling to wake up each morning and see my husband and son's face.
  3. I've definitely thought about it but haven't acted on that impulse. I guess I probably could but I just haven't. Masterbation really has never gotten me anywhere. Ian is half afraid to even touch me yet because he knows I won't be fully healed for another few weeks.
  4. I don't know what you mean by uno but oral I'm pretty much sure we can. I didn't actually ask because I've never gotten or given oral and I'm not too sure I even want to. It's getting to the point where I want to though haha.
  5. There's a vitamin called L-Lysine. Whenever I feel one starting, I start taking 3 in the morning, 3 at night, and repeat that until it's completely gone. If you do that, they usually never even completely pop through.
  6. I started feeling some movement around 15 weeks I think it was.
  7. The digital camera we have is old and doesn't have a card that comes out of it like newer ones do. We're in the process now of ordering a new computer so hopefully we'll get that soon and I can post some pictures.
  8. I'm actually kind of worried, Ian slept from 10 o'clock last night straight through until 6 o'clock this morning. He's not even a month old and he slept the entire night. I really don't think thats normal. I'm kind of glad he did though because Ian got a full night of sleep last night. Even though I am pretty much better, he still insists on getting up at night to feed him and put him back to sleep. It's really amazing how great of a dad he is *sighs* I love them both so much. As for me, I'm feeling great. I can stay up for almost two hours now without getting weak. I got on the scale yesterday and I'm 107 lbs which I don't know how I've lost that much because I've been laying down or sitting constantly and eat a lot still. Plus, I realized yesterday when I was getting a shower that my tummy is pretty much back to how it was before I got pregnant. I have two stretch marks and they're pretty much invisible unless you really look and then they're only a faint white line. I still can't believe how amazing it feels to be a mom.
  9. First off, CONGRADULATIONS!!! I'm not sure but I think if you call the state, they will give you free insurance because you're pregnant and then insurance for the baby once he or she is born.
  10. My entire pregnancy I was like that. I swear, I think I wore out my husband. It was crazy but fun. Even though I can't have sex yet, I'm still REALLY horny constantly and it's really driving me nuts.
  11. Okay, here we go. I've pretty much read the entire thread but there probably are parts I missed so if something I say contradicts anything, just tell me. Don't take any of this too seriously BUT do listen. I can honestly say that I can relate to your situation better than anyone else that has posted because I was in your shoes not that long ago. I'm 16 years old and I have a beautiful one month old (well, he'll be a month in 3 days) baby boy. Just because I'm young doesn't mean I am not a good mother because I've had everyone telling me in the last 2 weeks that I'm an amazing mother. As for your parent(s), I can honestly say that was the thing I was freaking out the most about. When it finally came to the time when I told my mom, she calmly told me she already knew but she was just waiting for me to tell her. I honestly believed my dad would literally kill me when he found out. I was wrong. My dad absolutely LOVES my son. Not long after he found out I was pregnant, he switched me and my brother's bedroom, painted the entire thing, went out and bought a crib, and told me that everything would turn out okay. The only thing that makes me question whether you're ready for this entire situation was that you said (don't quote me on this!) that you started having sex about a month ago but just started using condoms. The only thing I'm wondering is when you had unprotected sex. Still, even with condoms you CAN get pregnant. I was on the pill when I got pregnant from only missing 1 pill. The only thing I can tell you for sure right now is that you have to wait until atleast 5 days before your period is due to find out. If you go out and buy the EPT pregnancy test, you can take it up to 5 days before your missed period and it will give you pretty much 100% accurate results. Also, you have to remember that there is no such thing as a fake positive but you CAN get a fake negative so if there's only one test in the box, buy another (even though most tests come with more than one). I really can't get onto enotalone too much because I broke my laptop a few weeks ago and I'm still not in great health (I had complications after having my son and was pretty much in a coma for a week) so I'm at my sister's for awhile so I can get online. PM me if you'd like. Trust me, you may not think right now that things will work out, but in the end, THEY WILL if you work at it. It will be a blessing if you aren't, but also a blessing if you are. A baby is a beautiful thing. If you are, I can guarentee you that it's going to be the hardest thing you will ever do but if you work at this, take FULL responsibility for your actions, and be mature about this, YOU CAN DO IT!
  12. HEY! Talking behind my back now? haha just kidding. Thank you. As for the issue of having your belly rubbed, I HATED it unless it was my husband doing it. I would recoil anytime anyone even brushed my stomach, even if it was my mom. I didn't mean to and sometimes I think it actually made her feel bad but I just couldn't help it. It's normal for people to touch bellies but each mother-to-be will have a different reaction to that.
  13. Actually I think it is possible. I didn't realize it but from the time I was about 3 weeks along, my hair started falling out. It slowed down around the time I started taking pre-natal vitamins which was around 9 weeks.
  14. Hey guys! I'm doing A LOT better now. My legs are still weak if I am standing for more than a few minutes but I can walk around more. I had another checkup with the doctor today and they still can't seem to figure out what was wrong with me. The tear I had is fully healed and has no sign of infection at all. Ian had his first doctor's appointment and he's doing great! He's 10 lbs exactly now. I can't believe in 6 days, he'll be a month old. I'm still upset that I missed the first week of his life but we're making up for that time now. I know this is going to sound really weird but whatever. The entire time I was pregnant, if he was kicking hard when I was trying to sleep or rest, I'd put headphones over my belly and play the song "Dreamer" by Ozzy Osbourne. Now if we can't get him to sleep, all we have to do is put that song on and by the end of it, he's asleep. I don't know why it works but it does. He's still waking up at night but each night he sleeps for longer and longer before waking up. I really think that within another week or two, he'll be sleeping through the night which is kind of shocking considering he's only 3 weeks old. hmm Cory.. I called him last week and he came over on Friday to see the baby. Ian didn't have a problem with it at all and he was actually glad to meet Cory for the first time. They got along pretty good and Ian actually thanked him for giving him a beautiful son. Cory held him for awhile and said goodbye. I'm not sure but it looked like he had tears in his eyes and he told me and Ian that the two of us had a beautiful son. When he left, he asked me to keep in touch with him and keep him updated on how we are. It felt weird being around him again after all of this but I'm glad that everyone is at peace with this whole situation. We still haven't decided on what we're going to tell baby Ian when he gets older or when we should tell him. We still have plenty of time though to decide. Again, I'm over my sister's house and it's getting late so I'm going to head back home and go to bed. Ian already took the baby home about an hour ago to put him to bed. I seriously couldn't have asked for a better husband and father than him. We have pictures of Ian that were taken in the last 2 weeks but I have no idea how to get them onto the computer here. The cable cord to the digital camera we have isn't compatible with my sister's computer so as soon as we can figure out a way, I'll post pictures on here for everyone to see. I LOVE BEING A MOM!
  15. HEY GUYS! I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this now that I'm not pregnant but I guess you can change the place if you can lol. I'm finally on and I'm a mommy! I am doing a lot better but I still can't be out of bed or off the couch for more than like 10 or 15 minutes without getting dizzy spells. I got home around 3 on Sunday and slept and slept and slept haha. Ian is doing great! I've been pretty upset because I haven't been able to take care of him like I should but I still spend every possible minute I can feeding him, changing diapers, or just holding him. I hate the fact that I miss the first week of his life. I can remember being in labor and being so happy but the last thing I remember was seeing his face and I can't remember much else until late last week. They still have no idea what was causing me to be so sick but they said as long as I continue to improve, things should be okay. It may take time but I will get better. I'm sorry about taking so long to update after I got home. Tuesday I thought I had enough strength to get up by myself for a few minutes while Ian was in the shower. I sat in front of my desk for about 5 minutes and I started getting dizzy so I got up and went to take my laptop to my bed when my legs went out from under me and my computer smashed. Right now I'm at my sister's for a little bit with the baby so I figured while I have a few minutes before I start getting tired, I'd update you guys. I really really really really really! want to thank everyone for all the prayers for me to get better and all the support you gave Ian over the last 2 weeks. I love you guys and you all are seriously like family to me. I'll try to update when I'm near a computer but I don't know how long it will be until I can get a new one for myself. Seriously, thank you to everyone!
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