tyler12345

Hey, Well...from a my(a guys perspective), we are quite intimidated by women who don't react to signals that we give off. You really seem like a nice person and have alot going for you in life. You should be more confident when you go out. As much as some people diagree, personality and intelligence are really attractive to most guys. I personally like girls who are quiet but can keep a good conversation going. so just hang in there. just cuz ya bombed the 1st time a guy approached you doesn't mean anything. nothing alittle more experience won't cure. So next time ya go out. Just have fun...and maybe with enough confidence you will approach a guy. Good luck!!

thats what i though.....i just don't wanna turn out to be the "rebound" guy, id ya know what i mean?

suppose I should start by saying that I met this girl about a week ago at work. I really find her interesting and she is really nice. We started talking one day and ever since we talk quite often now. We work in a call center and every day she comes and sits beside me. (I always make sure wherever I sit, there is an empty seat beside me). We always take are breaks together and asks me when I'm taking my next break. She usually seems interested whenever I'm talking about something and asks questions about me. I asked her to go for a drink with me after work and she said yes, although, most of us from work go over to the bar next door for a drink. After that we decided to go get a coffee before I dropped her off. We were just sitting in my car having a smoke, when she asked if I wanted to go to her place to sit in where its warm. Nothing happened at all that nigth and I was too chicken to ask her out the following night. She also metioned earlier that week that she broke up with her B/F. She is always with me at work, but I'm not sure if she is because she doesn't know very many people there or not? Can anyone give me any advice on whether she may like me or not? I really like her, but am a bit nervous to ask her out.

Hey, I know how ya feel. My G/F of 2 years broke up with me awhile ago. It is hard to get over it, but you have to try and fill your time with other things now. If you want to get back together with her, it will take sometime and you have to act like it doesn't bother you. Make her feel like she's the one losing out and if she really loves you, she will realize that.