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  1. Been there done that. Not a good thing to do cos the result can hurt and more lies come out, and if its a case of her finding out you've done this you've pretty much destroyed the trust that she has in you. i have been in a similar situation. My bf was cheating on me for 7months and if it wasnt for a drunk night alone at his house i would never have checked his logs. Rang him at 2am in the morning cos he was at work said "it was over." Never seen a guy get home so quick from work. Needless to say we've worked it out. Not the easiest thing to get through, but certainly not the worst. Feel free to send me a private message if you wanna chat. cass
  2. His Son and Daughters have guardianship but it says no medical intevention. Ive come to terms with that... As someone said to me the other day "we are kinder to our animals than we our to our human species"
  3. To me weather a guy is taller or not doesnt mean anything i've dated guys shorter than i am. I think your making us out to be all the same.
  4. I would just like to put this question forward and get peoples veiws and opinions on the following question How is palative care more acceptable over euthenasia? for those of you that dont know palative care is, it is when they put a drip in to keep a person hydrated and give them morphine and not feed them basically til they starve to death... We have just put my Granddad on palative care and I cant comprehend how it is seen as being a more appropriate method of putting some to there death... So I want your view on it.. Thanks cass
  5. thanks... for the advice theres things there that i need to get my mum and her bro and sis to consider..
  6. it is hard and i'm really not coping... i've gotten my self drunk and i'm pushing away friends.. i just had a fight with one.. i hate everything.. this is so incredibly hard... and i know i may sound like its all about me... i just dont want to know that he was starved to death even if he isnt in pain.... thankyou both for your advice, and thoughts means alot
  7. I'm not coping with this... I lost my dads pa this time last year.... its so unfair...
  8. yeah i guess thats how it would work. he cant swallow now he wont be able to swallow if its removed. I think they hope he'd die from something else
  9. he's 86 just age... and emphasiema (spelling again sorry) the musles in his throat arent working... i'm not the one that has to make the decision, but its still just as hard...
  10. other wise he will either choke to death or get penumonia (spelling sorry) if he gets that there will be no cure for him
  11. He's unable to swallow food he's lost so much weight he is now skin and bones.. to put a feeding tube in will help him survive
  12. My Granddad is at the point where he can no longer swallow his food and more. He chokes on it.. and as heart breaking as it is they are asking if we want to put a feeding tube in or a drip and morphine (which will kill him cos they will starve him). The question I have is on his guardianship papers hes put down that no medical exipment is allowed to be used and no resusitation (sorry for the spelling) So does that mean he cant have a feeding tube? Pls I am so distressed.... Cass
  13. Id just like to make it clear that I tell my bf everything he knew there was a chance he'd try and make a move. I cant deny that in my mind the idea was exciting. But why now after 14 months is he trying again. Its stressing me out. My engagement party's next week and I really didnt want to deal with all this S**T!
  14. so why is he still harassing me to sleep with him then. He said to me yesterday he has unfinished business. Now i'm the one with the guilts. My partner knew I was going said he trusted me not to do anything. And I havent but i feel like ive decived him. I hate this feeling. I hate being wanted by someone else while im in love with somreone so special...
  15. I went out with a male friend that I knew before I met my future husband tonight.... We kissed and made out back then but it never went further despite there being chemistry between us. About 14months later (tonight) I meet up with him cos hes leaving Australia in 3 months just to see how each others going etc... Talked for a while then we go to leave and he comes over to my car and says that he's holding back from kissing me. Anyways we change subject and talk again etc... then he tries to make a move on me. I pulled back and said to him to go. I wont deny that i didnt want to kiss him i did but I didnt cos I love my man.... Even though i did nothing i still feel really quilty. Why would i be feeling this way and have i done anything wrong?
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