I'm 16 and started a relationship with another girl a month after my 16th it was going well except for we rushed into sex everything was fine we argued some but not alot and we usually made up which i was fine with we rushed into sex and it left me feeling unsatisfied with her this ultimatly broke us up.Now i'm starting a new relationship and It's great we have talked about sex and we both feel ready and secure.I'm just afraid that it will be the same again i wan't her and to make love to her but i can't help thinking it's me and theres something wrong with me i've told her this and she understands i'm the first girl she's been with and she doesn't have any expectations she knows how i feel and has tried to help but thers just a feeling of unease that i'm going to ruin our relationship becuase of this.I Love her and want to please her anyway i can i want to make it special but i dont know what to do i'm afraid i'm going to make it an un-happy memory for her as my first time was....My other relationship was intimate but unfufilling becuase we didn't know what to do.I'm scared and confused and don't know what to do.
