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  1. Hey! Well, I have exams in about 2 weeks and as they are approching, I find I am getting worst. I feel like cutting more often and I get these really horrible mood swings( these may be caused from the lack of sleep, cuz I am really having a hard time sleeping lately). I was wondering if anyone has any advice to deal with the stress( other then cutting..lol)? And does anyone have any really good studying techniques? (Since I am so tired, I can't seem to concentrate either) thx! * I am also in a relationship...but lately I have been feeling really strange...will I feel back like my old self soon, or am I just changing?
  2. yeah..i seem to be on that roller coaster too for like... the last 4-5 months! and it sucks! i'd sure like to get off it too! ..anyone have any suggestions?...advice?..anything?!?
  3. Race is not a factor for me. We are all humans and all the same when it comes to having feelings,.....
  4. Why do I have so much difficulty to tell my bf, my friends...anyone actually , when there's something really bothering me..I don't have as much trouble if it doesn't include them but if it's about them, I usually don't say anything, no matter what it is or how bad it is! And they can ask me how many times they want, I'm always gonna find some other excuses, and even when they know theres something wrong and it's about them, I still don't wanna tell them.... thks for any replies!
  5. I'm defenitly a boob girl! ....anything that has to do with the boobs, pinching, bitting, licking....and kisses all over my body, touching my body( thighs, stomach...)....when my bf breaths deep or makes sounds...and of course, the more into it he gets, the more i get!..... and a good massage before all of this is always really good too!
  6. Hey! Well.....I was wondering wether or not this is normal .....I dont usually smell "down there", .....but everytime my bf fingers me, it smells.. Whats up with that!?! Any advice?
  7. Well, here's what I think.... #1- It is possible that one of them likes you, but it is also very possible that they are laughing at something else that has nothing to do with you too... #2- Well, I don't know...It depends I guess...Me and my friends have done that a couple of times, but not always though... #3-Well, it could be that she likes you, but well, I know that me and my friends do like "spreading tha word" #4-Hum...It'd say that is total BS...I had never even heard of that! #5- I'd say that, yes, if a girl likes you, chances are her friends will act diferently towards you....they might be nicer, talk to you more....
  8. Hey! i was just wondering if I'd be doing my body harm/be in danger if I decided to stop taking my pills...Since I'm on the pill I know that my periods will be while I'll be on my trip and I don't want them then so I thought that maybe if I just stopped to take them, then I'd get my period earlier and I wouldn't be stuck with them while on vacation!... Does this sound ok?
  9. As ticklebug said, she doesn't need to be worried. With everything that seems to be going on in her life it's more then likely that it's nothing..... Just be sure that she goes to the doctor when she can, just to be sure!
  10. ok,..... but what if it only happened twice?
  11. Hey! I know this should go in the pregnancy thing, but I couldn't seem to find it.. Anyways, I was just wondering what are the chances of getting pregnant if you had unprotected sex (and ur not on the pill or any kind of birth control)? Anyone have a clue?
  12. One of my friends was cutting and she just kept telling me how it somewhat "solved " her problems(made her fell better.....). I got to a point where I was out of ideas on how to deal with the stuff that was going on in my life, and that's when I thought about everything she had told me about cutting.....I guess that it was true, but she had somehow forgotten to mention all the trouble it was once you wanted to stop!..lol... Hope that somewhat answered your question!
  13. Hey! I'm reallyworried right now and I don't know what to do...I used to cut ( during summe) and stopped...well, for the most of it anyways, cuz my friends got me to go see a psycho. Last night, I was over at my friend's house ( one who got me to go see the psycho) and she just started crying...She told me she had started cutting...she showed me her arm and it was pretty bad....I know I'm gettint her to go see a psycho on monday, but is there anything else I could do? I knwo I was/am at the same place as her, but I have no clue what I would want ppl to do if there was someone who wanted to help me right now... I'm also not sure if I really should get her help, or just wait till she wants it, cuz I know getting help didn't do anything for me until I decided I wanted to stop...? Any advice, please? thx lots!!
  14. Hey! Lately I can't seem to compliment ppl easily ...I've been somewhat depressed I guess, but I would still like to return the compliment when I am given one! I don't need to be giving compliments to everyone, but mostly, my bf.... Does anyone have any advice? thx lots!
  15. Hey! Well, as most of you might remember from my posts, I've been, well, depressed enough...I din't cuy myself for a long while....Everything got better after a while...I have a new bf (who I really care for, but I'm trying not to get too attached to him, cuz I'm afraid of getting hurt again...eventhough it will prbly hapen eventually... ), I am slowly getting my grades up and seemed to have an easier time to concentrate... Only saturday night , I don;t know why, but the fact that my dad yelled at me just did it and i lost control...i cut myself...not bad, but I still did it...and I had stopped....now everyone thinks that I've stopped for good and I don't have the heart to tell them otherwise( worry them only because of that....)...I'm starting to have trouble concentrating again...and sleeping.....I don't know....I don't wanna go see the psycho( I canceled my two next appointements, so she wouldn't see the cuts) cuz then she'd tell everyone.....And now that I have a bf, everytimei talk to him and he says he wants to talk about something serious, i just presume that he wants to break up!...I don't know,....maybe I'm just turning paranoid...probly Well, if anyone has any advice or comments, please! thx lots!
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