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  1. Yeah I agree with what most people say here.. it's not worth the hate.. Walk away and find someone who has more in common with you
  2. It sounds to me like she really doesnt want this new found male friend to go away.. she finds something in him appealing... I wouldnt trust the whole situation if I were you..
  3. A couple days after being together for 7 months .. I'm kinda just sitting here thinking to myself after all the bumps and grinds that this girl might finally see how much she means to me... We are still together and still exchanging kisses and hugs every single day as well as we pretty much make love once or twice a day and have since day 1 ( I think we may have missed about 4 days)... There was some issues earlier on mostly due to her ex being a poop head but ... well We have our own little apt... Both working.. A cat... And we still say I love you every night before bed before cuddling and going to sleep./... I guess things are pretty OK... There are some things Ive said I feel stupid for though because I have a hard time letting the things go that happened over the ex .. (No cheating) but some dishonestly... Still This is the only relationship I've ever not been willing to let go of.. The rest.. well They'd have been toast.. but this girl.. I'm in love with her completely... And she is me .. She was the ebst friend to me I've ever had yesterday when I was having the worst day ever.. I've never had that before... Only selfish girls... Anyhows I just wanted to share my enthusiasm because I learned one thing at my age... You can't open yourself to many people... but the one you can...Is the one you shoud stick with... Love you chels./.. Happy 7 months.
  4. Yeah me too.. this guy told me he "forgot" about her... until she added him to MSn etc.. How she could even be confused about some guy who "forgot about her"? Well that just blows my mind.
  5. Thanks and I made it using photoshop and then exported it into adobe image ready... By trade I am a graphic artist as well as a web developer and own a web hosting business. Well I went for lunch with her.. she says she doesnt want to break up and that he's gone and that she didnt want to lose me over this guy and that she lvoes me more than shes ever loved anyone... She was crying and said she was so sorry and had carried a friendship with this guy for 4 years and all he did the other day was tell her how she didnt need me and that I was a dick?.. Um I've never pushed her down any stairs... Etc.. as for him.. well I had a little chat with him as well and pretty much told him that if he ever bothers her again... well it wasn't going to be pretty.. This is the girl I want to marry.. No as-shole from her past is going to take that from me. I'm not so inclined to let what we DO have go so easily and certainly not without a fight... and well if she did leave me for him again well.. I'd still pay him a visit anyhows I think for the misery he's caused me for 7 months now.. The only problems we've EVER had in our relationship stem from him.... He knew we were having a baby.. (Which we jsut lsot at 4 months pregnant) and the whole deal and it still didn't stop the guy.. I mean wtf.. what a loser....
  6. I'm not sure what to do... All I ever wanted was for her to realize what she had and feel the same in return... I guess sometimes people as the saying goes don't know what they have until it's gone? And by then it's too late. I dunno.. I guess I just hope she has something really good to say at her lunch break in one hour to salvage this.
  7. I've been dating this girl now for 7 months.. we just lost a baby together and we've been having this conflict about her ex who she told me before pushed her down some stairs and was a jerk to her yet she keeps talking to him lying to me saying she doesn't etc etc.. and today I turned on her computer (My other one) and MSN signed in and suddenly he's on her new list after she told me he was blocked and deleted.. I told her months ago it was too much to take and it was either me or him and now two days before valentines day I find this.. and she's been distant for awhile now as well... She knows I love her .. She knows all this and I can't figure out for the life of me what shes doing.. I asked her straight up today what she wanted and if she wanted to leave and she said NO... but how can I sit here and take all the lying and deceit.... She has since .. well since she told me about the stairs stuff asked me stupid questions like "If you and I broke up and I had the baby at my house and this guy was over and you showed up what would you do?" (This was at xmas)... The messed up part is that she always says she loves me and is even wearing an engagement ring from me... We've been living together all this time and I simply don't understand what she is thinking... I mean she keeps telling me she has NO feelings for this guy yet every time I turn around she's talking to him... I confronted her about it today and she said that He added HER to MSN and she blocked and deleted him... Because Im not a complete moron I added him to my msn and asked him what was up and he says She added him.... This is such bull crap.. I'm a helluva nice guy and have given her Everything in the 7 months and she does this to me?.... What do I do? .. I went to her work 10 minutes ago and she told me she doesnt want to leave.... and that she loves me... but how the hell do I trust someone or even give them the time of day if they do this stuff to me... Is it perhaps cause she doesnt know what she wants? because if so I think I am done wasting my time loving someone who wont give the same.. A million girls out there would love a guy like me I think.. and the one I love... well she treats me like crap because of some ex bf.... I dunno what to do my heart is broken... This has to be the best valentines ever I even brought this girl home to meet my family and such and thought she loved me the same as I do her... This has been going on for 7 months now with the ex and I swear she's keeping him on the line as a fall back but it's just not fair and breaks my heart daily I'm so lost here I love this girl so much what do I do?
  8. I've been dating this girl now for 7 months.. we just lost a baby together and we've been having this conflict about her ex who she told me before pushed her down some stairs and was a jerk to her yet she keeps talking to him lying to me saying she doesn't etc etc.. and today I turned on her computer (My other one) and MSN signed in and suddenly he's on her new list after she told me he was blocked and deleted.. I told her months ago it was too much to take and it was either me or him and now two days before valentines day I find this.. and she's been distant for awhile now as well... She knows I love her .. She knows all this and I can't figure out for the life of me what shes doing.. I asked her straight up today what she wanted and if she wanted to leave and she said NO... but how can I sit here and take all the lying and deceit.... She has since .. well since she told me about the stairs stuff asked me stupid questions like "If you and I broke up and I had the baby at my house and this guy was over and you showed up what would you do?" (This was at xmas)... The messed up part is that she always says she loves me and is even wearing an engagement ring from me... We've been living together all this time and I simply don't understand what she is thinking... I mean she keeps telling me she has NO feelings for this guy yet every time I turn around she's talking to him... I confronted her about it today and she said that He added HER to MSN and she blocked and deleted him... Because Im not a complete moron I added him to my msn and asked him what was up and he says She added him.... This is such bull crap.. I'm a helluva nice guy and have given her Everything in the 7 months and she does this to me?.... What do I do? .. I went to her work 10 minutes ago and she told me she doesnt want to leave.... and that she loves me... but how the hell do I trust someone or even give them the time of day if they do this stuff to me... Is it perhaps cause she doesnt know what she wants? because if so I think I am done wasting my time loving someone who wont give the same.. A million girls out there would love a guy like me I think.. and the one I love... well she treats me like crap because of some ex bf.... I dunno what to do my heart is broken... This has to be the best valentines ever I even brought this girl home to meet my family and such and thought she loved me the same as I do her... This has been going on for 7 months now with the ex and I swear she's keeping him on the line as a fall back but it's just not fair and breaks my heart daily
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