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  1. Magic_star829
    hey there, If this has only been going on the last few weeks, then I'd say more than likely it has been brought on by something that happened in that time frame. You mentioned she's been getting hazed lately?? This is very serious...and can seriously damage a person both physically, but specially mentally/emotionally. I would focus on the issue, not the symptoms...maybe find out for sure what's really been going on and try your best to support her and be there for her in any way you can...and no it doesn't require you to be a therapist...though if she is being bullied excesively that might not be a bad idea. Don't give up on her because things aren't like they were before...make an effort to just be there. Good luck.
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    I know how you feel, there were times where it felt like I lost all motivation, had no real friends, lost my goals, didn't feel worthy and was just sort of existing. What I learned, was when you are in the place, it's best to take it one moment at a time. It's best to grieve all you've lost, properly and then let it go, and start fresh. I noticed that it was like a domino effect, as far as things getting better...pick one thing to start focusing on positively, and then the next will come, and the next and so on, and soon enough you will have built a solid positive foundation. I think school can be a great idea, you don't even necesarily need to know what you want to go into for college, you can just take various classes and see what you like...also it's a great place to meet new people, make friends, etc... If you ever need to talk you can IM me Also you are right about making you stronger, it may be cliche...but it's so true. Good luck.
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    That's the spirit!!
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    As I was reading the first two paragraphs I felt like it was me who had written them. Until the 3rd...then It was all new. I also was broken up with out of the blue, after about 4months (also intense). I did NC from the begginning, and he called and left a message on my phone saying he knew I probably didn't want to talk to him but he was going to stop by because he had to talk to me and it was important! Never saying what it was about, just left me hangning. I broke NC just to tell him NOT to come over, I didn't want to see or talk to him. (I knew It would break me all over again just even to see him). Now...I don't think you messed anything up that wasn't already that way. I think you should just initiate NC(for good this time) and move on. You deserve better. I know it's hard...trust me I know..but you know as well I as I, that you will heal better, and be better off in the long run.
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    I agree with some of the above posters! If he doesn't want children HE should get 'snipped'. The recovery time is much less for him anyway. As far as you getting your tubes tied..it's a pretty big decision so make sure if you do go ahead with it, you've thought long and hard about it and not had any pressure put on you. Good luck.
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    sorry to hear that betrayedgirl...wow that really is shallow! I can't even begin to understand the reasoning for that? It just doesn't make sense to me....breaking up with someone because he doesn't like the type of building you live in?!?
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    Thanks Bestrongbehappy, and onelittleladybug, I did text him saying to please leave me alone, and not to show up. He said fine he wasn't going to come. I have been up all night though wondering what he could have possible meant by it was something important he had to talk to me about...I really want to know...but at the same time am not strong enough to see him, I would be broken all over again.
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    Thanks everyone...I didn't check his profile..ok I did but only because I was on the site, and noticed his picture on the top...it's not like I was searching for it though, but yes I agree it will drive me crazy. Here's the twist...so last night, past midnignt...he calls and leaves a message saying he will be in my area of town today to exchange a gift and it's important that he talks to me, only for a second??? So he says he will drop by in the afternoon. Now honestly I don't feel like seeing him at all...I know though that I will be coming home from work around that time, and fear running into him. Would be he okay to break NC and send him a text or e-mail saying NOT to come see me??? I can't see what would be so important maybe he wants money for my ticket that he paid the day we broke up?? I really don't want to see him.....
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    Ok so the my ex the one who broke up with me about a week ago, saying he wanted to concentrate on school yada yada...well he had taken off his POF profile when dating me...and well today I noticed he put it back up, and it seems he put alot of effot into it as well. It says looking for : Dating! I can't believe it. I have had no contact with him since, and have been trying to heal, but after seeing that feel like I'm right back at quare one as far as healing goes. I just feel so used, and so stupid! How could I have fallen for that? How could he be ready to find someone else already? He really most not have cared one ounce about me! Is is common for guys to move on very quickly?
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    : First of all I'm sorry for what you are going through. Now is there a way to get a more definite answer as to when your compensation will arrive? Some kind of status or approximation?
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    The first thing I notice is the eyes....to me they can be very telling. Also there's just SOMETHING about blue eyes.....yummy!
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    wow that would suck...my roomie is fine with it though she might even have a friend that wants to move in with her. If not she said whoever would be fine.
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    Thanks for your replies! Yes I know I won't get my deposit back from the landlord, only from her but since I owed her about the same amount when she moved in, she will be taking it I"m fine with that. I was just hoping I wouldn't have to pay a fee for breaking it even though she (roomie) is staying.
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    Hi, Just wondering if anyone has experience with breaking a lease (apartment) and what was done about it? I currently have 6 months left on my 1 year lease, and though I am almost sure my roomate is staying, and I will work really hard on getting a replacement for the the next month, I"m not sure what to expect when I tell the landlord? Will he keep the security deposit even if I get a replacement, and even though my roomie is staying??
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    Just curious....my ex broke up with me too saying it was because he wanted to focus on school etc...(he's in law school has 2 years left) and we recently got back his exams from Jan and the marks weren't as high as he would have liked....can you tell me what was going through your mind and why you said you had wanted to break up with her around finals?
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