aphrodite12

Thanks, I know it helps with the healing. But what if this works both ways and he also stops needing me? I want him to see me while his feelings are still fresh, not when he's used to living without me already.

I am on day 20 of NC- me and the ex have not said a word to each other since he broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I have wanted to text him but because of my strong belief in NC, plus the fact that I was acting sooo desperate and tearful when he was telling me it's over, I haven't. But I am starting to worry guys, I want him back and I am worrying that his love for me will lessen with each day of NC until it'll become too late to have any chance of reconciliation. He loved me so much that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me just a week before the ugly fight that led to him leaving me. But I fear he is starting to forget me. What do I do, keep this up until the 30-day period and then send him a text? Or wait for him to contact me in his own moment of missing me?