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i dont come on here very often but i came on to read up on something and i noticed yours. anyway, it really depends on you. i dont like to completely shave. it feels and looks great till you start walking around. you itch and scratch and oh geez, it kinda sucks. people say that after a couple times, you get used to it, but id rather not get used to that. i trim. i just trim off a large layer from the overall area. no itchy and for how often... not too often, every month or two.

not yet. i want to go with her.. and we have colliding schedules sometimes

yeah, that is pretty ignorant of both of us. but i did mention it before. i wasnt straightforward and tough on the subject as i should have been, but i did talk about it. and i just remembered something. she said she found condoms in her parents room once, so if she knows her parents are using them, why would she have a problem with it??

yeah, that is weird. i agree with yang. lol and you're not alone.. my girlfriend freaks out sometimes at stupid things too man.

i looked around online and found a place to go get us both checked. im gonna go tomorrow. im not happy about it.. but im anxious to know whats going on. thanks again also... i had the condom talk with her.... and it freakin pisses me off, but she said shed rather just not do it anymore.... * * *!!!!! i dont thiiink soo!

yeah, im sorry... i did, im just bummed out. so, you're saying that she could have contracted something about 9 months ago and it just came up?

alright, thanks guys, im gonna get it checked out. i really appreciate all the advise and help. you're the best

and also, i turned 18 6 months ago.. so im not covered under my parents, so i really cant see a doctor. and if my parents find out, im 100% screwed, because they are the crazy hardcore christian types. also, i am well aware of the different ways to get STD's, i have had some education in regardes to it, but it just doesnt make sure why she'd, it just doesnt make sense why she'd have anything.

but she didnt have sex before she met me.. so she had no reason to have an STD, and this is definitely not the first, or.. roughest weve had, and ive been irritated, but nothing like this, ever, and like i said before, its itching on the opposite side that i rubbed with.

ok... my opinion... fake boobs look great, and you might get a hoot and a whistle from a couple construction workers, but they're overrated, and you get stretch marks... lol and like the guy way before me said, they might explode at a high altitude. but anyway, i dont think they'd feel right, and just wouldnt be great. plus, would you want real genuine Oakley's or fake ones make in mexico?

im a little scared. my girlfriend an i had sex 2 nights ago (prom night) and we use the withdrawal method, because she doesnt like condoms. (but now... if she wants to do it again im gonna freakin make her). so anyway.. last week on.. thursday she told me her vagina was itching a lot. ( i might add that before we met, we were both virgins, and started about 2 months ago. so anyway, i didnt pay much attention, because she said it was probably just irritated. but on that night, we dry humped for a while, and then i inserted. so fast forward to 2 days later... the head of my penis is itching. and it cant be from the dry humping because its itching on the opposite side that i rubbed with. i also noticed a light redness from half way on the head and to the bottom. nobody better tell me not to worry... because i am... a lot. i asked her about it, and she started getting weird and telling me not to get pissed off (which im wasnt) but she said she doesnt have any idea what it could be. HEEEEEEEELLP!!!!!

yeah... i agree. she always gets uptight and thinks her parents know everything shes doing, as if they have access to infrared satellite technology. why would she be like that? this brings up another issue. i talked to her dad because we got in trouble one day with me being at her house and her parents not being there. her father and i agreed that we will only hang out when we have someone with us like her sis or bro (which is impossible... and, annoying) but i tried, and she has no problem breaking any rule that her dad sets, and risks us getting in to trouble. i think her dad is testing us, and we arent supposed to be talking after 9. she doesnt give a crap. she wont let me off the phone, shell cry, and say i dont care about her, and make a huge fuss that i "dont want to talk to her"... but i do enjoy talking to her, but i dont want to risk our relationship. and in no way that i explain this will she understand. it seems like what we are doing at the moment is a higher priority than the overall picture.

we were both virgins before last month. shes made out with guys before, but it never went past anything to do with the hand. she was somewhat abused by her parents, although she wasnt beaten. we both had a religious upbrinding, so yes, sex is a dirty old sin. Outside of the bedroom, we have a tough life. both of our parents are pretty hardcore strict, and we have our own struggles. recently, we had a few arguments aboutgetting too close to other friends, and me getting jealous, but my friend made me realize that we just hadnt set any kind of boundaries. i am open to discussing anything with her, and i dont know how to determine if she needs therapy, but id definitely be happy to go with her. how do i bring this up without upsetting her, or making her feel like shes some kind of weirdo, because even though i think the science of psychology and the observation of peoples behavior is amazing, it is critisized and not thought too highly of in our culture, along with many things. weve been going out for 8 months now, and we are both 18.

when me and my girlfriend got together, we started with kissing, and i soon found that she enjoys dry humping. i found it interesting, but you know... anything that works for her so fast forward to 1 month ago. we both had sex for the first time. now to the point. when we hang out now, shell climb on top of me, and start kissing me, and then start rubbing. then well start having sex. 1. she wont even think twice about picking up the phone if someone is calling. 2. it seems like she does it now just to get it over with sometimes.. and just want to leave... or like today, her brother called, and she stopped right in the middle of it.. who does that anyway?? 3. she never wants to have an orgasm. shell stop sometimes just so she doesnt. she says she "doesnt want to" but i cant comprehend that. so this means that i am not satisfying her, or i dont know what the heck is going on, but i dont feel too great about it. if anyone can make any sense of all this.. write back also... she will not do any oral, at all. im sorry if i made her sound strange... i love this girl to death, but this has really been bugging me lately

the first time i made out with my girlfriend, i sucked.. just plain and simple sucked at first. aaand she saw that.. and she took control and said "let me teach you"... and she showed me how its done.... it was awesom